Do you think you can be married to someone for 20 or more years and still love them?

Yes I’m married since 1997. A lot has changed even us but I still live her. I guess she still loves me. We are so busy raising grandchildren now for our daughter. It not easy.

My wife & I are living proof of that! We've been married over 25 years, have raised our two wonderful boys, and are empty nesters now, looking forward to retirement and travel together!

We've just celebrated our 30th wedding anniversary and I still very much love my wife.
Whether it's reciprocated or not only she could answer, sometimes her voice says yes but her eyes say no. But on occasion when there's love in her eyes, my heart soars.

Yes, very much so. I'm almost to 30 years myself. It still feels like love to me.

I will do to what I have to do to protect them with everything I have inside of me.

My best friend just lost her husband of 51 years. Yes, you can still love them fiercely.

I think I could. That's how long my parents have been married, and they seem to be doing fine (and they've been together even longer than that). If you find the right person, it could last forever.

I think like any relationship the love you have after 20 years is different than the love you had when the relationship is new, but my parents were together and in love for way longer than 20 years.

Yes. I was married to one for 20+ years and still loved each other. And yes, it can happen again with right partner.

I think so - the passion would likely subside a lot, but I know lots of older couples that are obviously in love.

Depends on your definition of love. If you associate sex with love then I think likely not, but if living together happily, caring about each other, gifts and dinners and hugs, then yes, for sure.

Absolutely! Both parties need to work hard to communicate, show affection, and respect the other's needs and dreams.

Well I still love my wife and we've been married longer than 20years.

it'll be 37 years next month! that's a firm Yes! from me.

Yes. I love my wife of 41 years.

Absolutely! Married for 30+ years. He still gives me butterflies.

Definitely. Have done so for longer than that.

50 years and counting here.

My parents still love each other 35 years in.

Every day.

Of course. It might not be the same kind of love than when you started, but then again it probably shouldn't be.

Absolutely!

Absolutely!

Yes, very much so.

I did.

Yes sure i can especially if there is chemistry and that special bond

Yes.

Yes.

I can't imagine myself staying married with someone for 20 minutes...

Of course!

Of course

Of course

sometimes yes sometimes no.. its a roller coaster to be sure

More and more.

yes, 49 years so far

why not

It’s been less than 10 and sometimes I’m not very sure….

Absolutely.
If you married the right person.

yeah. people do it all the time.

Yes, it seems to become a deeper love with time.

Sure can all depends on how you gell

With the right person, yes, absolutely.

love yes, sexually attracted to maybe

I hope so

Sure, if it's mutual.

Depends. If its an open marriage, yes absolutely, if its not then then the chance decreases a lot

Hell yeah

Not the systems convoluted definition of love

Yes I do!

Lol, so are you saying your true username is “Eventually I will be your hater?”