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what age you started your very first relationship?

How you feel when you think back?
Xalvadora · 18-21, F
When I was in middle school, a guy who I had a crush on told me we dated back in daycare. I don't remember it. The earliest I remember dating was when I was 12. I started dating a girl my age during the summer, the year I started middle school. I was so surprised to see her there since I've never seen her at school before (maybe that's because we went to different elementary schools).
We met through her grandmother. At the time, my mother was neighbors with my now ex-girlfriends grandmother and I would sometimes go over there whenever my mother does. This grandmother looked rather young and fit. The grandmother had called one of her granddaughters, thinking that she knew my little sister, since one of her friends and my little sister has the same name. Her grandmother called her over for a sleepover with a friend, only to find out that her friend wasn't there. The night I had spent over at her grandmother's house with her, we slept in the same bed (me, her and her grandmother). We both couldn't sleep. I was the kid who could feel people's vibes, especially whenever I'm alone with them and they're awake. I lied in the middle, she was on a side of me while her grandmother was on the other side. I had/felt this vibe that she wanted to kiss me or something. I didn't act on the vibe. She asked if I was asleep and I told her no. I forgot what she said afterwards, but I recall her asking if we could have sex. I agreed, not really sure of my sexuality at the time (I wasn't worried about my sexuality, since I had never thought about it before). We did it on the bed while her grandmother was asleep. I liked it, I enjoyed it. Her grandmother didn't wake up. From that night onward, we started dating, but not publicly.
She wasn't really a girlfriend. I allowed her to have sex with a female classmate, mostly because I didn't know how to be a girlfriend. Then when it was time for me to spend the night at her house, I saw that she was already dating someone, an adult actually. Yeah, I was hurt, though I had always been selfless, and sometimes selfish.
Xalvadora · 18-21, F
@cecile Telling me to grow up? You're the one who made the disgusting joke.
cecile · F
@Xalvadora you must be a totally humourless bore, i bet your the life and sole of the party,do you know how to smile ??
Xalvadora · 18-21, F
@cecile Only a sick person would think a "joke" like that is funny. I have my fair share of dark humor, but that's just sick.
Tell me, what's funny about a person pretending to be alseep and is aware of two children fucking right next to them?
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
i forced to engaged in a sexual relation when i was 14 and soon he made me addicted that even my mind want to came out of it my body prevent me doing that , later when i think about it so many times feel that if i can open my mouth during time my life must be changed in another way
Where I was 11 My Grandfather started me giving him blow jobs..🥰
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Camelia · F
I was 15; he was 24. How do I feel about him? Not kindly, that's for sure.
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
I think I was 8 year's old.
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dancingtongue · 80-89, M
By relationship I assume you mean a committed one, where you are dating (or more) exclusively, and not crushes or friend zone relationships. That would be 27. We were married for 43 years until cancer took her. Best 43 years of my life.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Odd situation that was close to a relationship over many years. On and off from grade school to sophomore year of highschool. It was odd because we periodically left and then back again for various reasons.
Adrift · 61-69, F
I wasnt really interested in a real relationship until I got older. I had dated a few people but most of them were friends that I liked hanging out with untill things got too complicated.
BigBulge · 41-45, M
When I was in Middle School, a girl used to meet me in the school parking lot during lunch break where she would give me a blow job every day. Oh, man, it was great !
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bugeye · 26-30, F
me n my current BF have been dating since about 16..... i get a lot of weird looks when i say weve been together for a decade and we still look so young XD
Blondily · F
15
He was too immature for me and wish I wouldn't have dated him.
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F
@Blondily other way around 🤭🤭
Blondily · F
@XDHyperGirlXD1 True! 😂👍🏻
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F
@Blondily 🤭
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dancingtongue · 80-89, M
Well, as you can tell from the varied responses you needed to define relationship. I would say all of us had our first relationship with our mother; it is just biological reality. But assuming you meant a significant reciprocal romantic relationship with a non-family member, I would have to say 28. I was a late bloomer. Not to say I didn't have crushes and infatuations with others going back to third grade, but none I could say were reciprocated.
Zeusdelight · 61-69, M
When I was born. All other relationships stem from those ones.
Wiseacre · F
At 16..and after that, not until 21...too busy all the time.
JasminD · 22-25, F
Never been in a relationship. Never had a boyfriend or a girlfriend.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
16. I'm glad it happened and the way it happened.
meggie · F
16. I was too young and he was obsessed with me.
Around 11 in middle school. - Boy’s Room
exexec · 61-69, C
Both of us were 15. We married when 22.
I grew up with a total prohibition on relationships and dating. My boarding school had a no affection rule. You could be expelled for holding hands with a person. But we all got birth control from the school and the teachers were boffing us.
I can't sleep or relax around anyone, ever.
InHeaven · F
...should ve never met him at all...
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
I was 18, a late bloomer, he was a jerk.
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
Relationship?
At birth - with my mother.
Romantic relationship?? I was 20... I was young then and fancied myself to be in love with someone else ... we split or i did when i didn't deem him the commitment type (he seemed to fancy other women and i had no tolerance for that ironically)
NowOk · M
I was a wee lad of 12.
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Difficult to say.

I had been in a two year relationship by twenty two, and engaged. Does that count?
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@John1994 No she married one of her university lecturers. So I experienced my first betrayal too.
John1994 · 26-30, M
@SW-User that's sad. Anyway you are lucky to get to know it early
SW-User
@John1994 No, the pain was unexpected and lingered.
Pawpaw2molly · 61-69, M
I was 14, she was 13. Early 70’s so pretty tame, some kissing, light petting, as she remembers. Band bus rides. As adults we finished what we had started.
My first [b]real[/b] relationship started when I was 24 and we have been together ever since. I did date before that but I usually didn’t get past the first or second date.
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held my girl's hand walking to kindergarten every morning with the moms following a discreet distance behind. god i loved her.
NathanielS · 31-35, M
I was 17. I look back on it fondly even though I was very inexperienced and it didn’t last long. 😅
WhateverWorks · 36-40
15, 16 I think. My first ‘real relationship’ started when I was 18.
ElRengo · 70-79, M
Seventeen.
She was two years older.
I smile when I remember about.
eventtemple123 · 22-25, M
Still waiting 🫠
pitavarezal · 22-25, F
i was on 13yo
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DDonde · 31-35, M

 
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