I love being married but...

I want to go on dates with other people 🌼
Have a picnic. Share life experiences. Hold hands. I'm so hungry for connection all the time and my life is lonely.

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Ontheroad · M

That (loneliness) is the very thing that led to me being single. I take the blame for it because I didn't see the red flags before we got married. Her actions told me I was going to be alone. Did I see it? No, or more like I did, and ignored it.

It tooks years, but it led us to a divorce. Nothing ugly, mostly a sad thing for both of us. She was and is a fantastic woman and we are great friends, maybe better friends than when we were married.

I can't recommend anyone spend years and years like that... it wastes so much precious time - time you can never regain.

Convivial · 26-30, F

I don't think any one person can ever satisfy all your needs.... It's asking a lot

PinkNailPolish89 · F

@Convivial SOOOOO true!!!

Convivial · 26-30, F

@PinkNailPolish89 variety is nice

nonsensiclesnail · F

I can so completely relate to this.

PinkNailPolish89 · F

@nonsensiclesnail 😭*hugs* I'm happy and sad about that!

SW-User

I have those moments too, loneliness is the worst

carpediem · 61-69, M

Hearing that!

Pikachu

So then what do you love about being married?

PinkNailPolish89 · F

@Pikachu we have survived so much hardship together. Both of us are damaged people that found each other and found a way to start to heal. This marriage is hard work (as most are) but he is the most loyal loving funny person but equally as dark (as am I) lol
Its so complicated after a decade and both becoming different people than who we were in the beginning.
I miss the joy of other people. When you are 2 dark spirited people together it feels like your downing. But when things are good they are SO good!

Pikachu

@PinkNailPolish89

Sounds tough.

Animalvan · 56-60, M

Then do it…keep it hush hush

SW-User

Yeah

Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M

You don’t love being married, to him anyway.

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