Would be difficult to endure...

Maybe he isn't really asexual, but his sexual "preferences" are very different from yours? Anyway it's good for you to move on; good luck to you

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So sorry !!
It's difficult for me to understand as I am the opposite.
But, everyone is different, no judgment here.

First, welcome to SW!

Next, 8 yrs? I take it he wasnt early on and over time....?

Hello!

Been there with an ex bf. We were together since hs, used to hump like rabbits, then down to rare.
Frustrating is one word for it.

Thanks for letting us know.

To each their own. You are still young with a whole life ahead of you. Good luck.

Welcome to SW.

Congratulations or I'm sorry

hope u find right one soon

It’s sad. Time to move on. Good luck.

Better to have left him, it must have been a shock to find out about it.

Regular sex is boring after a while. Once you get into a routine. Nothing new to see, nothing new to explore, just the quick buildup and release. There is that euphoria for 30 minutes after and then nothing.
Real sex involves a lot more. Vanillas never get it.

Ooh
He wasn’t satisfying you?

Were you playing chess for 8 years

Now you're free to get your pipes pumped.

I can imagine this being incompatible with your fruity identity.

And you didn't know that before marriage and you never has premarital sex with him?

Why get married if u two wasn't having sex

Was he always asexual or did he lose interest in sex later on?

Asexual - FREAK?