My mother just told me she feels distant from me after my marriage. I dont know what to do with that information

That is quite normal and it takes time to adjust to the new reality. Maybe set a regular weekly slot to catch up so the parents don't feel as distant and still feel part of things. It will be different for every family so find out what works best for you.

It's called adulthood, independence, being self-reliant. Should be celebrated by both of you. Don't fall for any guilt trips by helicopter parents unable to celebrate a job well-done in parenting you. Enjoy and celebrate your life until you become the filling in the sandwich generation, and have to hover over them while finishing raising your own kids.

Leaving the nest means starting your own herd, but you can find new avenues as adult friends.

Frankly, she needs to encourage your new life as she enters her new life and opportunities.

That's natural, and the way it's supposed to be. She's too clingy apparently

You are supposed to leave your parents and cleave to your spouse. They raised you to be an independent adult, their job is done, now to find a new identity with them as you learn to be dependent on your spouse.

nor should you feel as close

you have other responsibilities and distractions

you'll be there when they need you

Can you both make an effort to change it?

Do you see them less since you got married?

It is to give you guilt. Ignore it. Everyone has to live their own lives.

Yeah you don't want to become a Bobby Boucher from The Waterboy. No matter how much you love your momma.