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That can be difficult. Try going to the gym with him, or working out together elsewhere. Not only will you two get the opportunity to bond, but you'll start to feel better about yourself.

He's with you for a reason, right?

dont.. you can get fit too.. dont sabotage your relationship because of insecurities.. he is with you and thats by his choice. so he likes you the way you are now.

Another opinion that you're looking amazing at least in your user-pic, nothing to be ashamed of. And if he was only after your looks, that wouldn't last anyway.

It's usual for people to feel self-conscious, of course, and ultimately you have to remember different people prefer different looks and it's not always what you'd expect. But looks aren't *everything*, and as you're experiencing, dating someone who you judge to be "perfect looking" can actually be pretty stressful and not always desirable.

Not sure what you mean about "let him know how you feel"; usually I think that's the best recourse, but a more difficult question would be how to express it.

Just distract him with lots of sex

He wouldn't be dating you if it mattered. But if you want to create some common ground tell him you admire his fitness and ask for advice.

He obviously likes you. So don't be insecure. You look pleasant from your profile pic, but it's not just about looks.

I don't agree with the advice 'you can get fit'. Don't join a gym because of a man, it reinforces needy behaviour

You can let him know how you feel. He obviously likes you as you are or he wouldn't be with you, right?

Er... you are actually