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So I started dating the man of my dreams but I'm feeling super self conscious about myself. He is super fit and I'm not. Should I let him know how I feel? Also does this make anyone else feel self conscious?

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SW-User

You can let him know how you feel. He obviously likes you as you are or he wouldn't be with you, right?

WanderLustChick · 31-35, F

@hyg346: yeah it's just super awkward. Ive never really felt like this before and I've always been the thick girlfriend.

SW-User

@WanderLustChick: thick girls are great. It's bugging you, so work into it gradually. Or, you can take the direct approach if you think he can handle it and give you a straight answer. "I'm not comfortable with how I look, and I'm afraid if it might bother you too. Do you accept me how I look?" Now you have to brace yourself for the negative answer that he might want you to tone up or change your look a little bit. Hopefully he is a good guy and likes you exactly as you are, which I think he does or he wouldn't even be with you.