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So I started dating the man of my dreams but I'm feeling super self conscious about myself. He is super fit and I'm not. Should I let him know how I feel? Also does this make anyone else feel self conscious?

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LithiumDrop

That can be difficult. Try going to the gym with him, or working out together elsewhere. Not only will you two get the opportunity to bond, but you'll start to feel better about yourself.

He's with you for a reason, right?

WanderLustChick · 31-35, F

@Antiquity: I agree lol I think I would be embarrassed going to the gym with him he would out run me anyday.

NigelDoes · 56-60, M

If you were to be that shallow, why would you even want to be with him?

WanderLustChick · 31-35, F

@NigelDoes: it's not really about him. It's me that feels bad about it. I know he wouldn't be mean or make me feel bad.

NigelDoes · 56-60, M

I totally understand your position. Sounds like you found a great guy. :-)