Give examples of red flags you've seen or encountered in a partner

My last bf was very quick to get angry and offended. And he was mean about it. He would pick and poke until you felt like nothing, then apologize, then laugh it off.

Girl with all male friends,

They cut a watermelon and cut the heart of it out and eat it before anyone else has a chance to get a bite.

"Lets keep our Money & Banks Accounts Separate! Okay 💁🏻‍♀️💋?" As a Surgical RN she made nearly 2x what I made!

"It doesn't realllly matter 💋💋💋😘😘😘 does it?"

"Giggle 🤭💋💋"
"I bought a Brand New Honda Accord ES-L , all by myself! Today!!!!" 💰 "Its coming out of MY Paycheck, so don't worry!" (Traded previous 2 year old Camry in upside-down!)

”I added it FULL 💸 COVERAGE on OUR Insurance, its only $127/month more!” "That's right, huh?"
I paid the Insurance of course!


Took 8 years for the IMPULSE BUYER / HIDDEN HOARDER to MAX OUT!! on 4 Credit Cards (ZERO % INTEREST for 18 Months!) , Car Loans, & a $6000 Credit Line.

YAY!!! SECOND MORTGAGE!!!
🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

Locking their phone when they never did before, and not giving you the password, even though they can always access yours whenever they want.
Texting, and then turning off their phone the minute you move.
Changing the password on their laptop. same behaviors as above.
Dressing sexy and going out and won't say where they're going or who they're going with.
Suddenly changing their hair style and makeup preferences, buying new lingerie but not wearing it for you.

This all happened to me within the last 5 months. I should have seen it sooner.

Jealousy after a short period of time (six weeks or less), need for absolute satisfaction without cause of acceptions, lack of emotional control, random outbursts of anger, need for absolute control, poor communication, and over all lack of similar moral compass.

On a date and she took me to some kind of old fort then told me she had a fetish of something that rhymes with grape. Yeah needless to say i never saw her again 🥴

I’ve witnesses partners turn up at meets just to check if their other half is where they said they were.

Plus an old friend of mine when he was out with us would make his girlfriend send pictures of where she was and who she was with, when she was out and he was at home he would ask her to send pics of places she was at. Crazy behaviour imo

I had a girl tell me they've had a lot of boyfriends cause they get tired of guys quickly

still eating from their mother (sorry but in greece that's huge!)
drug abuse
not caring about their health (bad food choices, lifestyle, no exercise)
excessive behaviours (also including positive traits..such as being overly polite or giving)
overworking themselves (that's not a phase i'd like to accompany them)

Says they believe in a lot of things like monogamy and courting, but changes their mind as soon as you start to get to know each other better.

prison bars

Just one of them.
To think that peace is so valuable that we should allow whatever other´s behaviours out there while you don´t care.

Not sure about red flag, but im a monogamous girl talking to a poly guy. Sometimes i get crazy jealous when he flirts with others, but he never hides anything from me and we talk/communicate about it.

Cheap
Does drugs
Always in a bad mood
Body odor, bad breath
Too busy
Disrespectful

Picks fights with others when we're together.

Not really listening, can't compromise, biased, selective understanding lol... The list goes on

Hickeys in inappropriate places

Percieved control.

The rankest dueces ever.

Jealousy and trying to control you in everything

Insecurity. Hypersensitivity.

Control freak

When she dyes her hair blue or pink

When they talk about crystals