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CastorTroy · 31-35, M
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@CastorTroy Agree. The other is an enabler
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@CastorTroy I don’t agree with that. I don’t care about the other person, only my husband that he’s a dog and I’d pray he didn’t give me fleas while I was serving him divorce papers.
Graylight · 51-55, F
It depends on the relationship. If it's a causal relationship and rules have been established, then I think the one who cheats has shown no loyalty to a growing relationship.
Other, longer relationships can be vastly complex situations in which two people maintain a dance. Cheating in this case is almost always just the symptom for deeper issues. They take time to dig out, examine, repair or toss that which no longer works for the relationship or individual.
Infidelity doesn't have to be a final chapture.
Other, longer relationships can be vastly complex situations in which two people maintain a dance. Cheating in this case is almost always just the symptom for deeper issues. They take time to dig out, examine, repair or toss that which no longer works for the relationship or individual.
Infidelity doesn't have to be a final chapture.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
Prodaki · 31-35, M
When my ex cheated on me I felt like shit, thinking that it might have been my fault.
But after the pain, I've realized that it was HER the guilty one.
And same goes for enyone else, it's never the cheated one who is to blame. It's ALWAYS the one who cheats. And sometimes, also the person with which your partner cheated.
But after the pain, I've realized that it was HER the guilty one.
And same goes for enyone else, it's never the cheated one who is to blame. It's ALWAYS the one who cheats. And sometimes, also the person with which your partner cheated.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Strongtea · 22-25, M
It could be either person. I have cheated because my girlfriend was really boring.
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Strongtea · 22-25, M
It’s complicated, but yes she did drive me to it@RafSilGLucca
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Oh, ok. You had to be there. Like I said she showed her true self when she got even with us@RafSilGLucca
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
most of the time, the cheaters of course, but some times its the other person in the relationships aswell to a certain extent
as well as by how cheating is being defined by the individual
as well as by how cheating is being defined by the individual
The one knowingly act on and or participate.
RafSilGLucca · 26-30, F
@aaaabbbb How do you mean?
@RafSilGLucca The one who initiated it and the participant, if he or she knowingly participated.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
The cheater. How could it be anybody else’s fault?
eyeno · M
ARGH... No Cheating Allowed !!!
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
A likely scenario is that both share some degree of fault, as people below mentioned things like neglect. Though it is possible for the non cheater to be completely without fault. That is not a defense of the cheater though.
It is absolute that the cheater holds fault, and even when fault is shared the cheater holds the larger portion of the blame. Even in scenarios with neglect, where both parties hold fault, the cheater still holds more blame.
It is absolute that the cheater holds fault, and even when fault is shared the cheater holds the larger portion of the blame. Even in scenarios with neglect, where both parties hold fault, the cheater still holds more blame.
Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M
If a woman cheats, the man didn't serve her needs as a woman. If a man cheats, he's a piece of shit.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@Fukfacewillie They’re both pieces of shit, regardless of which sex they are.