If your marriage or relationship fell apart, would you have somewhere to go?

@VodkaBec Yes we have to be self reliant and not to put the key to your happiness in some one else's pocket.

@WillaKissing Wow, that’s deep, and well written.

@VodkaBec Thank you. I can not claim being the author, but it spoke to how I feel.

@DearAmbellina2113 That really sucks, I’m sorry to hear that. It almost sounds as if you’d go if you could.

@Starcrossed lm glad to hear things have worked out for you and your kids.

@VodkaBec well that's not entirely true yet.

@Starcrossed Work in progress, if so all the best.

@VodkaBec oh yeah. I have a house and a place for my dogs. But part of my commitment to marriage was a full commitment to life with her/my family . So I was more than prepared to not have a safety net. If I had left a place to go, I would have never felt that my heart was in the right place. Shows what a fool I really am

@Notanymore I’m glad it okay now, I wouldn’t say you are a fool, only human 🤷‍♀️

@VodkaBec aren't we all

@DudeistPriest I gather that means it wouldn’t be you going?

@SpaceCreature I’m glad, from what I hear it’s something we shouldn’t take for granted.

@SweetMae Hmmm that’s unfortunate, no family? I hoping you don’t feel as if you want to leave.

@Somewhereovertherainbow Good to hear, a lot of people must become estranged from their families.

@boklenholley7 Good for you.

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit I see, sounds likely the once bitten syndrome.

@VodkaBec my father raised us that even if we found a perfect partner with a wonderful career, their length of life wasn’t guaranteed. My birth mother passed away just a month after I came to be. In fact my loving husband now.. his father died when he was 12 leaving his mother to struggle as she never bothered to acquire any skills to support herself or her kids. My husband ended up working at 14 then being the full time bread winner at 16. I really don’t want to even think I could ever lose my partner but it’s more possible than people like to picture. I wanted to always know I could take care of myself no matter what.