Lack of experience

Its when we get impatient and get in a hurry that we do wrong things for wrong reasons and a lot of people get needlessly hurt. I know it seems impossible and endless..but I can tell you that there is a gift you have that you can only give one time to one person.....and after that...if its not the RIGHT peson in teh RIGHT time....its a wasted gift. Wonderful things are in your future.....dont rush them because of impatience I wish you will

You are way too young to be worried about that. You shouldn't worry about being a virgin lol. Women are not under pressure to loose their virginity. It is men that looks down on each other for not loosing their virginity early. Besides it is not quantity that matters it is quality that is most important. The fact that you've waited is an indication that there is something special about you and your experiences will be far more intense and satisfying than the people who jump into almost random sexual experiences with too many people. For the people who have too many sex with too many people at a young age sex becomes meaningless and boring and eventually no relationship is special.

I'm in my 30s and don't have all that much experience with dating and love, and yet twice here, guys have said that really wouldn't matter to them😘🐨

Regarding your statement of “experience is attractive”.
Not necessarily... the passion behind it is...

In the long run, you'll be OK. I can't guarantee it, but it's as close to a sure thing as there is.

In the short term... sure, go out and pick up a dude or gal just to get the experience. Regardless of the desperation level, though, please remember two things: A) [b]ALWAYS[/b] use protection; if he won't wrap it, he isn't worth your time; B) [b]ALWAYS[/b] treat yourself with respect.

Keep those two in mind, and you'll be more or less OK. Just know that if you go for a random hookup with a dude, odds are he's gonna be far more interested in getting himself off than getting you off. So, it may suck until you start to know what you like - and what you don't like.

Have you seen the film the 40 year old virgin. He does pretty well. Just saying lol

We all start somewhere... And others from there ;)

That’s a good thing for girls. I haven’t met a guy who saw a virgin and was turned off by it. I mean I’m sure they’re out there, I just haven’t met one. Whereas I’ve met a lot of woman who don’t like virgin men.

Well we appreciate you feel that way and you are going to get a LOT of men hoping to cash in on your inexperience and offer to help you out with that *problem* but love and sex don't work that way.. experience doesn't count.. feelings do, motivation does, attraction does..

Oh and PS EVERYONE would want a 40 year old virgin..

You are never ever going to have men turn that down!

I almost wonder if this post was a wind up..you sure are going to get a lot of attention.. from men offering to *help* maybe that was the intention?

If it helps, men are often turned off by women who have too much experience.. and most them would never even consider marrying or having a relationship with a woman who#s been around too much..

Go almost anywhere and talk to someone. If you get to 10 minutes, chances ate you could get a date. Balls in your court.

I respectfully disagree.You'll be okay,Sweetness.

why u rushing into it :O

These are all my internal thoughts too

I know someone who you might want to speak to who feels the same as you...

It will get better. 🌸

I feel you there.