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What is the general opinion about a girl asking a boy out?

LyricalOne · F
It’s 2019. You should be good to go.
rckt148 · 61-69, M
now days its open season I guess ,
Some girls figure if they wait ,,the school slut might win over the man she likes ,,
I would tell my Granddaughter to go for it ,
though in my day ,,a Mom would have labeled her a slut
"Ladies just didn't do such things"
But one thing still hasn't changed ,
He still has to pass muster with the parents ,in my case me
and we have to meet his parents and trust has to be gained before he takes her off anywhere alone ,,,
I have 3 granddaughters from being overly trusting ,,and 2 dead beat ex son in laws ..(one got himself killed ,but he still never supported his kids ,,I did )

Recently a boy asked my Granddaughter to the prom ,,they had a good time ,
She told him he had to meet me before they could date
he said whats the big deal ,,even bragged on face book her family was in for a surprise that he was a wise ass and was not putting up with any lectures from "Some old man ",he was going to teach her a thing or two ,,
When I asked was he accustom to bragging about his lack of respect to his dates parents ,,He replied "Yea what business is it of yours old man ,I am a wise ass ,what of it "?

My granddaughter replied ,,Meet my Papaw ,and I replied
"guess who is not dating my granddaughter ".

To hurt her ,last weekend her sends her pics saying he was with the 2 girls in the pic ,,"Having a good time "
The girls texted my granddaughter "maybe in his dreams "

She was at a party ,actually having a good time
He is the reason she still wants us to meet guys she likes
and she wants me on her face book account
SW-User
I would have liked it when I was young and single because I found it difficult to do the asking.
SW-User
@rckt148 I was too stupid to notice them chasing me lol
rckt148 · 61-69, M
@SW-User I have pretended to not know on purpose
Bad part to that ,is I end up the big brother figure
the one she cries to when other guys screw her over
"I always feel so safe with you ,your always the perfect gentleman " that does not mean I want to hear about their love life ,but I did end up with a lot of female friends who are really good friends to this day
SW-User
@rckt148 Sounds very familiar
Nothing wrong with it, in theory. But it’s like I’ve said before; with the privilege of asking comes the price of possibly being rejected. Men have had to develop a thick skin, because women don’t always say “no” kindly. So a woman who asks risks being shot down, too.
TheBatQueen · 26-30, F
@bijouxbroussard not all men have a thick skin, I swear my roommate's bf is more sensitive than her.
@TheBatQueen By “thick skin” I mean having the courage to ask another woman out after sometimes having been cruelly rejected.
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
I've done it twice. Neither one rejected me 🤷
SaulGoodman · 26-30, M
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TheBatQueen · 26-30, F
Its normal , never done it before but if I want to I will.

You can't wait for him to notice you for the rest of your life you know.
ZonkeyBalls · 46-50, M
It's horrifying. She probably has a silencer in her gun.
JBird · F
@ZonkeyBalls *hides my shot gun*
trackboy · 22-25, M
lot of boys are afraid to ask the girl out so its up to the girl to ask the boy out. 😺
mrwhiterabbit · 46-50, M
why not? if you've got the confidence -do it
i am single lol
MsMarvel · 41-45, F
I wouldnt do it.🤷‍♀️ its a turn off for me.

 
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