In my experience, honesty is best, but 100% honesty can be destructive. Even if you tell, timing is important.

No. It's avoiding accountability and erodes all trust and chances for repairs.
How can you fix something if you dont owe up to it?
If they leave you, they leave you. You should've known better before cheating. As simple as that.


There is no "accidental" cheating.

Your still concussed. I'll give you the answer when the Doctor says you can leave the hospital. 🤕

I'd say so yeah. Cheating and lying is not only healthy but necessary in a relationship

I think that is wiser not to cheat on them

Unless you've done something that's going to resurface, like a child, take it to your grave. You're not doing for their benefit, you're doing it for your own benefit and getting hurt is all you're giving them.

Probably not, but it wasn’t wise to cheat on them in the first place.

Hiding it never lasts.

Well is you do own up, at least you got it off your own chest.

Its wise to not cheat on them it’s dishonest if you don't tell them but cheaters are usually also liars

I think it's wise to just keep it in your pants to start with.

Only if you have a good explanation how you got that disease.

wise if you wish them to remain your partner...

No, it would be wise not to be a cheating dirtbag.
But having cheated, and proving that one has no respect or love for their partner, the best thing to do would be to let them go, and find someone decent, who will treat them right.

No. I hate cheaters.

if you eat an apple. then you eat an orange is that cheating.