I'm just lonely

Once I had travelled to the Himalayas n their was near a village which had been devastated by cloud burst I asked a old man how are you he smiled n said am fine ,I asked him did you loose someone in the flash floods he said yes most of his family is gone ,I was surprised n asked him are you not sad ,his answer changed the way I look at life now ..he said they were meant to be only so long ..so they are gone I have to live on till my time comes..

It's a process and everyones process is different. Always remember though that there is a good reason that you two didn't work out. Have been in your shoes. It does get easier even when you can't feel it at the time. Good luck

Yes. It would be like losing a part of the body that we were functioning with. And then the feeling of know devil vs unknown angel that never appears.

What you need is a companion to anchor your mind and online is the best medium to find some people. Talk to as many which will reduce your lonely feeling to a large extent. Be active doing many tasks and avoid being alone doing nothing.

Until you find another partner..

You're feeling like half of a person because your other half is gone. There will always.be the phantom feelings, the ghosts, the echos, the memories after the amputation. All you can do is get through it, appreciate it for what it was, mourn it, bury it deep and then put it in your rearview mirror. And someday you will feel love again and you will feel whole. You will make new memories, there will be a new smile and you will be look around and see how far you've come without him.

Maybe try to find some things to help keep your mind and body busy .. reading about dealing w divorce or just topics you enjoy, walking or other exercise, a hobby, adult education classes, time w friends, etc ..

Wishing you strength and resolve. You’ll get through this. Keep busy, do things you like when you want to do them without the need to be answerable. You’ve got this.

It takes awhile but you get over them eventually.. sorry you miss them for now..

You never get used to it. The periods between feeling lonely will get less & less but you find around Christmas & birthdays it returns.

Been there many times but you learn to keep busy.

Sorry 😞 🫂

It's hard, but you will find someone else who will make a place in your soul.

so sorry sweetheart so sorry

*hugs* it gets easier.

"unfriend/remove" him from social media and find something else to occupy your time. The feeling of emptiness will start going away.

Divorces are extremely hard. The only winners are the solicitors

Any odds of a new guy ?

You need to find a distraction until you can handle your feelings