It's complicated. Plenty of girls pursue guys who are single. They enter relationships and go from there.

Some meet others who fulfil their needs but are already married so just take what they can get who give them what they need. Some reason they can steal the man, some just admit they don't think ahead. And honestly, none of these girls are wrong. It might lead to a lot of pain but it is their choice to make to be healthy. We all neglect something in our life balance and are at different points to achieving self sufficiency and happiness.

Few people still are suckers for pain but its a learned behaviour at that point.

Be supportive of a person you care for, and be ready to disaprove of the behaviour I say and do.

As to your main question...who knows?


Some women seem to see value in men only when those men have gotten married--as though some OTHER woman's decision should affect the original woman's mind.

And some women like to be in competition with other women.

I said before...
Love and emotions are complicated...

There’s one way to get women to crave you……. Belong to someone else. Gotta be strong though and don’t give in. When you have a good woman, cherish it.

Or girls pursue men that are horrible to them. There's an old saying women want what they don't need and need what they don't want and it is very true

It's scientifically proven that our brains can't compute the negative.
"I'm not gonna divorce my wife" is perceived as "I'm gonna divorce my wife". All we here is "divorce my wife". The rest doesn't matter to our human perception.

I imagine for the same reason men pursue girls who are not interested in them: attraction.

And why do men pursue women who aren’t interested in them?

Jealousy... Fear... Many reasons

To make up for the fathers that never loved them.

Becuse in their subconsious a man who does not show interest in them is a man of higher quality..

Irrational wishful thinking i guess or ego

They wanna be hunted, they like the thrill
A man who's interested in them has no excitement to offer.
>some women< >players< >some people who think it'll always spin their way<

For the same reason men pursue women 94% of the time, hormones!