Why do girls pursue men who aren’t interested in them?

So I know both girls and we will call them girl f and girl c

Girl F is a girl that has 4 kids but been with babydaddy on and off. She was messing with this guy who was married but he and his partner agreed to be in an open marriage. She brought the guy home to meet family and kids. She was also messing with other men at the same time as well. So girl F knew he was married but at work she be mad when others bring up his wife. Girl F came to work on Friday mad about him cutting her off, lying to her and going home to his wife. I told her that she shouldn’t never started dating him. She have her sisters and coworkers watching the girl social media accounts. I told her no when she asked me about it.

Girl C is a girl who works as a substitute teacher. Her and girl F got into an argument over the married man. They both thought each other were getting different treatment but better. So F and C got into an argument then later fought at a party. The man both said that he wasn’t interested in leaving his wife. They both decided to open their marriage to experience it.

it was suppose to be a mutual friend birthday party. They both fought and didn’t stop fighting after they left. They fought at the gas station lol

SomeMichGuy · M

As to your main question...who knows?

Some women seem to see value in men only when those men have gotten married--as though some OTHER woman's decision should affect the original woman's mind.

And some women like to be in competition with other women.

KingofBones1 · 46-50, M

Or girls pursue men that are horrible to them. There's an old saying women want what they don't need and need what they don't want and it is very true

MayorOfCrushtown · M

There’s one way to get women to crave you……. Belong to someone else. Gotta be strong though and don’t give in. When you have a good woman, cherish it.