Why do girls pursue men who aren’t interested in them?

So I know both girls and we will call them girl f and girl c

Girl F is a girl that has 4 kids but been with babydaddy on and off. She was messing with this guy who was married but he and his partner agreed to be in an open marriage. She brought the guy home to meet family and kids. She was also messing with other men at the same time as well. So girl F knew he was married but at work she be mad when others bring up his wife. Girl F came to work on Friday mad about him cutting her off, lying to her and going home to his wife. I told her that she shouldn’t never started dating him. She have her sisters and coworkers watching the girl social media accounts. I told her no when she asked me about it.

Girl C is a girl who works as a substitute teacher. Her and girl F got into an argument over the married man. They both thought each other were getting different treatment but better. So F and C got into an argument then later fought at a party. The man both said that he wasn’t interested in leaving his wife. They both decided to open their marriage to experience it.

it was suppose to be a mutual friend birthday party. They both fought and didn’t stop fighting after they left. They fought at the gas station lol

twistedrope · 26-30, M

It's complicated. Plenty of girls pursue guys who are single. They enter relationships and go from there.

Some meet others who fulfil their needs but are already married so just take what they can get who give them what they need. Some reason they can steal the man, some just admit they don't think ahead. And honestly, none of these girls are wrong. It might lead to a lot of pain but it is their choice to make to be healthy. We all neglect something in our life balance and are at different points to achieving self sufficiency and happiness.

Few people still are suckers for pain but its a learned behaviour at that point.

Be supportive of a person you care for, and be ready to disaprove of the behaviour I say and do.