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I hate being in bed alone.

My boyfriend is out of town on a business trip for the rest of the week. I hate being in bed alone. I don't sleep right, I'm bored before bed and none of it feels right. I also get like small bouts of insomnia.

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zonavar68 · 56-60, M

I haven't had a romantic partner since mid 2018 and can't contemplate what that would be like now since I value peace and solitude very highly.

Whereas most humans seem to think they are incomplete without a romantic partner, I'm the opposite.

helenS · 36-40, F

@zonavar68 You're not the only one 👍🏼

nevergiveup · M

My wife is a live in nurse so she is away for 3 or 4 days at a time. I miss rolling over and cuddling up to her.

Mandyheart98 · 26-30, F

@nevergiveup I feel that now in my soul lol

JustaBuddy · 41-45, M

Tough one. Body pillow and one of his shirts might help. Sleeping pills might help as well but wouldn't be my first choice. Exercise yourself into exhaustion.

Reachingforthestars · 26-30, M

I have been alone too for a while and I feel the same.
It is hard to adjust to it when you are used to being with your guy for so long.

Mandyheart98 · 26-30, F

@Reachingforthestars it always is. I agree

being · 36-40, F

I remember whenever having a boyfriend, I was craving for some personal space. And just the moment they were leaving I was feeling like you, it takes sometime to adjust, the only truth..

Katie01 · F

I'm the exact same. I genuinely can't sleep without sharing the bed with someone. If my bf is away, I have to go to my brother's or best friend's house and sleep in their bed with them

JamesBugman · 56-60, T

Sounds like you need a cat or two. They are so warm and fuzzy and purr a lot as they sit on your neck. It's cute.

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Galanr40 · 61-69, M

I know the feeling sometimes but it's also nice having a bed to yourself from time to time...

lonelyloner · 31-35, F

i can understand as i had gone though in my teen exactly like that

John628 · 18-21, M

@lonelyloner literally me rn haha

lonelyloner · 31-35, F

@John628 oh really!

John628 · 18-21, M

@lonelyloner ya haha

helenS · 36-40, F

I feel fine only when I'm alone in my bed.
There are occasional exceptions though 😏

1490wayb · 56-60, M

great ...about me and forum choices!! very informative...is there something you want try but havent yet??

Mandyheart98 · 26-30, F

@1490wayb deep sea diving

JamesBugman · 56-60, T

@Mandyheart98 Sign up for a scuba course, lots of fun, very different than you are used to, and will tire out your mind and body.

SStarfish ·

I used to sleep with my husband's shirt when he was gone...

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SStarfish ·

@ArtieKat cats are funny 🙂

ArtieKat · M

@SStarfish The principle's the same though - the scent of the person who wore the clothes!

SStarfish ·

@ArtieKat hmm

Nicenlongnthick · 41-45, M

Im exactly the same

John628 · 18-21, M

Same but I don’t have anyone :(

Butlerboy · 46-50, M

I feel the same way

TSMa85 · 36-40, F

Happens to me too when hubby is gone 😏

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@TSMa85 Presumably you're faithful though and don't cheat or consider cheating hopefully. That's where your relationship commitment is tested.

TartanTorpedo · M

Well we're going to have to fix this ...... car started I'm on route 😜

TravelingMassageMan · M

I agree is bad when you have to be alone in bed when your used to someone being there :)

AngelKrish · 26-30, M

I am awake as well ! It's 4 am morning now..

Harriet03 · 41-45, F

I can give you a number.

Nicenlongnthick · 41-45, M

You need to wear yourself out.make yourself exhausted.there are good ways to do this lol tried and tested

Markarth95 · 26-30

I can't sleep well alone. My spouse's snores are my white noise machine

virgin888 · 36-40, MVIP

me too

KingofBones1 · 46-50, M

I'm used to it by now.But i'm never alone because my demons are always with me

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KingofBones1 · 46-50, M

@Mandyheart98 I don't think you'd Be able to handle these

Mandyheart98 · 26-30, F

@KingofBones1 you might be right lol

KingofBones1 · 46-50, M

@Mandyheart98 I'm always right honey

IamBack · 31-35, M

Seriously now? Some people are single af and you’re upset coz he’s out for a few days? 🤷🏻‍♂ hang in there

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IamBack · 31-35, M

@Mandyheart98 nah bro you’re good, just found it interesting that you’re upset about it

I thought you were gonna say he’s in the hospital or you broke up or something 🤷🏻‍♂

Or maybe I’ve gone cold and numb nowadays idk, sorry if if that sounded harsh or anything

Mandyheart98 · 26-30, F

@IamBack I'm just not used to it.

IamBack · 31-35, M

@Mandyheart98 yup I understand where you’re coming from

retiredbum · 56-60

Not a fan of it either. I always sleep better when I'm with someone

Matt85 · 36-40, M

prepare for DMs

Mandyheart98 · 26-30, F

@Matt85 I'm about to prepare for a glass of wine and a tv show.

Matt85 · 36-40, M

@Mandyheart98 Sounds like a good plan :)

wudifu · 46-50, M

What donubusually do in bed when u are alone and want to relax

Mandyheart98 · 26-30, F

@wudifu usually play on my phone and watch tv

Yourwildestdreams · 51-55, M

Get a dog 🐕 😀

Lostlostlost · 51-55, M

Move over!

in10RjFox · M

Soon Humanoid Robots are going to be available on rentals that can be linked to any person's mind through a chop placed on the neck. The other person can also hire a similar robot where he or she is. The rest is story to be made.