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I hate being in bed alone.

My boyfriend is out of town on a business trip for the rest of the week. I hate being in bed alone. I don't sleep right, I'm bored before bed and none of it feels right. I also get like small bouts of insomnia.
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billybob69 · 61-69
how is your relationship , open and honest with each other, if it is you have nothing worry about, i have the same problem when my partner goes on holidays by herself, the first couple of days i toss and turn before sleep but after that im okay,
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
I haven't had a romantic partner since mid 2018 and can't contemplate what that would be like now since I value peace and solitude very highly.

Whereas most humans seem to think they are incomplete without a romantic partner, I'm the opposite.
helenS · 36-40, F
@zonavar68 You're not the only one 👍🏼
My wife is a live in nurse so she is away for 3 or 4 days at a time. I miss rolling over and cuddling up to her.
@nevergiveup I feel that now in my soul lol
being · 36-40, F
I remember whenever having a boyfriend, I was craving for some personal space. And just the moment they were leaving I was feeling like you, it takes sometime to adjust, the only truth..
JustaBuddy · 41-45, M
Tough one. Body pillow and one of his shirts might help. Sleeping pills might help as well but wouldn't be my first choice. Exercise yourself into exhaustion.
Reachingforthestars · 26-30, M
I have been alone too for a while and I feel the same.
It is hard to adjust to it when you are used to being with your guy for so long.
@Reachingforthestars it always is. I agree
Katie01 · F
I'm the exact same. I genuinely can't sleep without sharing the bed with someone. If my bf is away, I have to go to my brother's or best friend's house and sleep in their bed with them
Sounds like you need a cat or two. They are so warm and fuzzy and purr a lot as they sit on your neck. It's cute.
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Galanr40 · 61-69, M
I know the feeling sometimes but it's also nice having a bed to yourself from time to time...
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
i can understand as i had gone though in my teen exactly like that
John628 · 18-21, M
@lonelyloner literally me rn haha
lonelyloner · 31-35, F
@John628 oh really!
John628 · 18-21, M
@lonelyloner ya haha
helenS · 36-40, F
I feel fine only when I'm alone in my bed.
There are occasional exceptions though 😏
1490wayb · 56-60, M
great ...about me and forum choices!! very informative...is there something you want try but havent yet??
@1490wayb deep sea diving
@KentuckyFriedFloozy Sign up for a scuba course, lots of fun, very different than you are used to, and will tire out your mind and body.
YoMomma ·
I used to sleep with my husband's shirt when he was gone...
YoMomma ·
@ArtieKat cats are funny 🙂
ArtieKat · M
@YoMomma The principle's the same though - the scent of the person who wore the clothes!
YoMomma ·
Nicenlongnthick · 41-45, M
Im exactly the same
John628 · 18-21, M
Same but I don’t have anyone :(
MrGoodbar · 51-55, M
I'm sure you were glad when he came back
@MrGoodbar i definitely was.
Butlerboy · 46-50, M
I feel the same way
TSMa85 · 36-40, F
Happens to me too when hubby is gone 😏
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@TSMa85 Presumably you're faithful though and don't cheat or consider cheating hopefully. That's where your relationship commitment is tested.
jackson55 · M
Nice to have someone to cuddle with.
Well we're going to have to fix this ...... car started I'm on route 😜
jerMIguy · 41-45, M
Been there. It is just not right to be in bed alone.
TravelingMassageMan · 31-35, M
I agree is bad when you have to be alone in bed when your used to someone being there :)
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
I am awake as well ! It's 4 am morning now..
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
I can give you a number.
Nicenlongnthick · 41-45, M
You need to wear yourself out.make yourself exhausted.there are good ways to do this lol tried and tested
Markarth95 · 26-30
I can't sleep well alone. My spouse's snores are my white noise machine
virgin888 · 36-40, M
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
I'm used to it by now.But i'm never alone because my demons are always with me
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
@KentuckyFriedFloozy I don't think you'd Be able to handle these
@KingofBones1 you might be right lol
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
@KentuckyFriedFloozy I'm always right honey
IamBack · 31-35, M
Seriously now? Some people are single af and you’re upset coz he’s out for a few days? 🤷🏻‍♂ hang in there
IamBack · 31-35, M
@KentuckyFriedFloozy nah bro you’re good, just found it interesting that you’re upset about it

I thought you were gonna say he’s in the hospital or you broke up or something 🤷🏻‍♂

Or maybe I’ve gone cold and numb nowadays idk, sorry if if that sounded harsh or anything
@IamBack I'm just not used to it.
IamBack · 31-35, M
@KentuckyFriedFloozy yup I understand where you’re coming from
retiredbum · 56-60
Not a fan of it either. I always sleep better when I'm with someone
franklin167 · 36-40, M
maybe if you watched some porn it would help you sleep. the person who comes to orgasm then wants to sleep. I don't mean that in a bad way thanks in advance
I don’t sleep well unless I can reach out and rest my hand on my partner
BlackPetals · 18-21, F
I'll be right there!
Matt85 · 36-40, M
prepare for DMs
@Matt85 I'm about to prepare for a glass of wine and a tv show.
Matt85 · 36-40, M
@KentuckyFriedFloozy Sounds like a good plan :)
wudifu · 46-50, M
What donubusually do in bed when u are alone and want to relax
@wudifu usually play on my phone and watch tv
Lostlostlost · 51-55, M
in10RjFox · M
Soon Humanoid Robots are going to be available on rentals that can be linked to any person's mind through a chop placed on the neck. The other person can also hire a similar robot where he or she is. The rest is story to be made.
@in10RjFox sounds horrifying.
in10RjFox · M
@KentuckyFriedFloozy evolution has more horror in store..
Hatt94 · 56-60, MVIP
I work away from home. I am gone anywhere from a few days to a month. Sometimes it really sucks.
@Hatt94 yeah it's never ideal.
markinkansas · 61-69, M
i am just here to read the comments.. should be interesting
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Is he the same way?
Court69 · M
Pm me I'm bored AF
Court69 · M
You can come over and get in mine, she won't mind
scooogy · 31-35, MVIP
How about sleeping on the couch or such?
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
Oh well! How about your gf, sure you can call her over
@Donotfolowme can't, she's married.
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@KentuckyFriedFloozy course she can come she is your gf
oldercanuck1 · 70-79, M
you need a pet or a sleep pillow ,,
HotPizza71 · 51-55, M
I spread out all over the bed,it I did myself in the night and waking up,spread out
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@jshm2 no caffeine or alcohol around bedtime. Orgies only happen around summer solstice.
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
Get a Body pillow and put one of his shirts on it
@smileylovesgaming not a bad idea at all. I need to get a body pillow anyway.

 
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