I don't look down on it.

What I do look down is the public celebration of a PRIVATE relationship and demanding everyone pay homage to one's choices.

If you are happy and in a mutually fulfilling adult romantic/sexual relationship, there is no need post about it publicly for likes and attention.

There have been only 2 people in my whole life that I've ever been magnetically compelled to submit to.

I have no idea people like so many different things. But don’t seem to like this sort of thing I for one like to be tied up but people say I’m creepy because of it. But that’s what I like they like what they like but I don’t judge

Why can’t all women walk behind men with their heads down, that’s what I wanna know.

thankyou, I wish I had a controlling someone who could make me hot while making me frustrated, while not completely draining my account

I fully agree with you. For my wife and I it is extremely therapeutic and we both love our place in the household. Thank you for sharing.

Some people don’t understand something they tend to judge and put it down

I don’t mind it but people should keep their sex lives private to strangers. I don’t need to hear about someone’s kinks. It’s awkward and creepy

But can destroy the personality... Lack of confidence, and so on

Some people just have to be negative and agressif

I think on both sides, those within these relationships and those without, there are significant amounts of people that don't understand the difference between dominance/ submission and use/abuse. There are a lot of people that claim to be in the lifestyle that are actually just doing the use/abuse thing. And then people outside the lifestyle don't really see or hear about much that isn't the use/abuse thing. Largely because the happy folks in the lifestyle tend to keep it private. And the ones who don't are written off as kinksters trying to push their fetish on others.