I asked my girlfriend (hypothetically) If she would stop taking drugs if I said it was a problem for me. And she said NO

You're kidding, right?!!

The fact that it isn't a problem for you is what disturbs and concerns me. Also that your girlfriend refuses to stop and refuses to see that her habits could kill her.

I think she needs an ultimatum and if she still says no again, I would be long gone. Who wants to raise children with a drug addict who passes it on to her baby and doesn't even love herself enough to do better or get help? She also has no respect for anyone else nor consideration. This is a big problem. Or it should be! This is unacceptable and totally selfish behavior. What future does she have unless she gets off of these drugs? Same for you. If you love her and she's willing to allow someone to help her get her life straightened out, then do. But if not, it's the highway! You will do yourself and her, no good, supporting her and her habit.

And helping her, that's another good way to see if she really loves you or not. If she chooses the drugs over you, you've got your answer, so what will you do? I hope you do the right thing. And also if she loves you, she'll let you help her. But then again, you have to ask yourself is she in the right state of mind to be making right decisions.

It's very logical to feel sad. However you entered a relationship with her knowing what she does and what she's like. Unless she started later on... So if someone asked to abandon your old ways, give something up for them while all the while they knew what they were getting themselves into, I don't think many people would be up for it. And I know some would say yes just to comfort the other person, but most likely their actions wouldn't match their words. Of course anybody who's in love would like to see their partner willing to do anything for them, but that's not realistic.

Do you think you matter in this relationship?

In your head, what does this chick has to sacrifice to be in a relationship with you?

What line does she have to cross for you to drop her?

That's sad. Well, at least u know where u stand with her. Addiction is very strong. That kind of lifestyle is going to end badly for her and potentially you as well. Proceed with caution!

I have always found it sad to see why anyone would want to waste themselves away from reality. Even just getting drunk. What a waste of time, themselves and money.

I think it depends on how serious the relationship is. If it's fairly new, maybe give her time to love you more. If it's not, don't look back.

That's really unfortunate to hear. I hope you come across a better partner who treats you right. Personally, I haven't seen many non-medical drug users find success, but hey, everyone's journey is different, right? Just make sure you prioritize your well-being and stay informed when it comes to substances.

its not wrong to feel sadness

There are only very very few people that have escaped from the addiction of drugs. Over the time addiction gets stronger and overpowers the person's will power. This may not seem a big problem now, but can become very big problem in future.

Thats not that bad. Just dont let it ruin your life. I was in that same scene when i was younger. I ruined my life but because of other circumstances.

I hate to say the obvious, but drugs matter more to her than you. Let that sink in for a moment.

Run the other way as fast as you can! This will not end well! She will drag you down as well as herself!

Sorry to say then
Time to end thecrelationship and move on

i would never get involved with anyone who took drugs.

Is that your phone number in your user name..can I call you, I am dailing... its ringing.. pick up please

Except for cocaine, most of those are actually fairly harmless. I understand your disappointment, but you also presumably got in the relationship knowing that she takes those drugs.

I should point out that marijuana and LSD aren't addictive. Cocaine is though.

I feel like drug use is one of those things you have to be on the same page about for a relationship to work.