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When did you know your relationship was over?

Sometimes I don't know if I want to fight for this anymore. He's a good man but we are not happy people together. After 12 years I just feel so... Exhausted 😥
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SweetMae · 70-79, F
I knew it was over when he yelled " How dare you defy me!"

Don't waste anymore time if you have gone to marriage counseling without seeing any changes.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
@SweetMae Defy 🤣
Ynotjenn · F
When I lost all respect. There is simply no going back from that
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
@Ynotjenn I’ve heard women say this before. I’ve ended many relationships but I don’t think I’ve actually lost respect for anyone.
Ynotjenn · F
@Muthafukajones it happens…when a man doesn’t protect you or doesn’t make good decisions…or many reasons I suppose. But for me personally is that he would never be able to make me feel safe and secure. And he didn’t have the balls to make tough decisions
HeavenBesideYou · 61-69, F
I think one day you just know.

Then you have to go about the business of extracting yourself.
LadyJ · F
When you prefer your own company to theirs
When I wondered if it ever started.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
@GJOFJ3
That’s always a tell-tale sign that’s accurate for me.
4meAndyou · F
When my mouth started speaking all on it's own, saying divorce and leaving sorts of things.
When my son was in 6th grade. I got up one day thinking I don’t love him anymore.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
My wife was spoiled and frigid. Eventually that gets old. You realize you have better options, great sex with a beautiful intelligent woman. It cost me an insane amount of money, but every single day has been worth it.

Every one.
Ask yourself what you might need to change, whether you stay together or not. There is a saying- If nothing changes, nothing changes. In other words, if I dont recognize what I need to change internally, I will keep getting similar results. People think moving might help when they are in a bad situation. Whatever problems they have within themselves go right with them when they move to another location.
Ontheroad · M
At about the same time you are. It wasn't an angry thing, just a terribly sad parting.
When he disrespected me
SlippingAway · 46-50, F
When I was told they didn't respect me
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
It’s over?? WTF? I’m always the last one to know!!
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
When I was 14 it was because he found out I had been cheating on him by having sex with another guy.
When I was 18 when the man I was dating tried to slap me,that did not go well for him.
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@tallpowerhouseblonde
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My ex wife became distant after 3 years together. Always finding ways to distract herself from me. A year later, it was unavoidable, we were divorced and now live in separate states
MissyChrissy · 18-21, F
She slapped my face a few times and threw me out. 😔

I messaged you. If you didnt get it maybe it went to the requests folder.
WhateverWorks · 36-40
When within the first year there were already major problems for us to ‘wok through’
DearAmbellina2113 · 46-50, F
When I had no more "Maybe if we did ____, we would be okay" ideas.
Torpedocat99 · 46-50, MVIP
I totally understand. 🙁

It is exhausting.
When the dude had to go to prison 💀💀
Maybe it’s time to move on 🤔
The moment i lost respect.
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Lilymoon · F
When I no longer cared.
Allelse · 36-40, M
Once her body start to swell under the floorboards.
Ceinwyn · 26-30, F
When everything he did annoyed the fuck out of me.
Bang5luts · M
When her best friend was sitting on the floor in my living room after I shoved her off lap for trying to get in my pants that I was wearing
i don’t understand this @Bang5luts
Bang5luts · M
@deathfairy my exs bestfriend tried to get in my pants and my ex did nothing about it except encourage it. Which ended or relationship
Bang5luts · M
@deathfairy not being sarcastic but I didn't understand it either. Dm for more details
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
When you start to ask yourself that and sex has become a chore
deadgerbil · 26-30, M
@SkeetSkeet my sex is extremely labored and tedious
LordShadowfire · 51-55, M
Her mom told us.

 
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