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When did you know your relationship was over?

Sometimes I don't know if I want to fight for this anymore. He's a good man but we are not happy people together. After 12 years I just feel so... Exhausted 😥
SweetMae · 70-79, F
I knew it was over when he yelled " How dare you defy me!"

Don't waste anymore time if you have gone to marriage counseling without seeing any changes.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
@SweetMae Defy 🤣
Ynotjenn · F
When I lost all respect. There is simply no going back from that
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
@Ynotjenn I’ve heard women say this before. I’ve ended many relationships but I don’t think I’ve actually lost respect for anyone.
Ynotjenn · F
@Muthafukajones it happens…when a man doesn’t protect you or doesn’t make good decisions…or many reasons I suppose. But for me personally is that he would never be able to make me feel safe and secure. And he didn’t have the balls to make tough decisions
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
I think one day you just know.

Then you have to go about the business of extracting yourself.
LadyJ · F
When you prefer your own company to theirs
When I wondered if it ever started.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
@GJOFJ3
That’s always a tell-tale sign that’s accurate for me.
4meAndyou · F
When my mouth started speaking all on it's own, saying divorce and leaving sorts of things.
When my son was in 6th grade. I got up one day thinking I don’t love him anymore.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
My wife was spoiled and frigid. Eventually that gets old. You realize you have better options, great sex with a beautiful intelligent woman. It cost me an insane amount of money, but every single day has been worth it.

Every one.
Ontheroad · M
At about the same time you are. It wasn't an angry thing, just a terribly sad parting.
Ask yourself what you might need to change, whether you stay together or not. There is a saying- If nothing changes, nothing changes. In other words, if I dont recognize what I need to change internally, I will keep getting similar results. People think moving might help when they are in a bad situation. Whatever problems they have within themselves go right with them when they move to another location.
When he disrespected me
When I was told they didn't respect me
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
It’s over?? WTF? I’m always the last one to know!!
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
When I was 14 it was because he found out I had been cheating on him by having sex with another guy.
When I was 18 when the man I was dating tried to slap me,that did not go well for him.
deadteddy · 26-30, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde
SW-User
My ex wife became distant after 3 years together. Always finding ways to distract herself from me. A year later, it was unavoidable, we were divorced and now live in separate states
MissyChrissy · 18-21, F
She slapped my face a few times and threw me out. 😔

I messaged you. If you didnt get it maybe it went to the requests folder.
WhateverWorks · 36-40
When within the first year there were already major problems for us to ‘wok through’
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
When I had no more "Maybe if we did ____, we would be okay" ideas.
Allelse · 36-40, M
Once her body start to swell under the floorboards.
Torpedocat99 · 46-50, MVIP
I totally understand. 🙁

It is exhausting.
Ceinwyn · 26-30, F
When everything he did annoyed the fuck out of me.
Maybe it’s time to move on 🤔
The moment i lost respect.
When the dude had to go to prison 💀💀
Krysclear · 31-35, F
When I got mad at him for breathing
Lilymoon · F
When I no longer cared.
Bang5luts · M
When her best friend was sitting on the floor in my living room after I shoved her off lap for trying to get in my pants that I was wearing
i don’t understand this @Bang5luts
Bang5luts · M
@deathfairy my exs bestfriend tried to get in my pants and my ex did nothing about it except encourage it. Which ended or relationship
Bang5luts · M
@deathfairy not being sarcastic but I didn't understand it either. Dm for more details
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
When you start to ask yourself that and sex has become a chore
deadgerbil · 26-30
@SkeetSkeet my sex is extremely labored and tedious
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
Her mom told us.

 
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