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Who’s against interracial relationships?

I don’t understand why people are against it and brutally blunt about it. What is the problem?

Some people's minds do not mature enough to handle such diversity. I believe it is because they waste to much time and do not educate them selves or try to open their minds to the human experience

SW-User

And that's not limied to what one is supposed to educate themselves on or be sensitive about. I can look around this place, or any social media, and get pronunciations upon how they feel or are an empath towards, and sadly social media can create a big lie @Bang5luts

Bang5luts · M

@SW-User just have to tug on the big curtain rope huh? Unveiling the little man behind the curtain.. some of what I do is exposing him by having people search for and find him on their own. If that makes sense.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@Bang5luts I guess so

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

I used to not care but the older I get…… 👀

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LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@DeluxedEdition what’s that supposed to mean?! You’re against it now.

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

@Imsleepy because cultures are more different than you think until you find yourself mixed up with one. Lots of racism still alive and well in this world especially against white people. Lots of cultures are accepting of domestic violence and toxic masculinity

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@DeluxedEdition Yeah that’s true. A lot of people get called sellouts because of interracial relationships. My parents weren’t fans of interracial relationships. My siblings prefer their own race but isn’t against interracial relationships but they don’t want one and it isn’t for them.

UpForItNow · 22-25, F

I don't know why anyone in their right mind would care about others' relationships.

Carissimi · F

I have no problem with interracial relationships, but I do think you need to be ready to face discrimination from both races.

Imsleepy · 31-35

My father was. He tried to teach that hatred to me. I’m glad I was able to resist his attempt at indoctrinating me with his bigotry.

Chelsiegirl · 46-50, T

whats wrong with people.. love is love.. :) race does not matter

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@Chelsiegirl I agree

TexChik · F

I don't mind that it happens, but I preferred to stay within my own race.

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TexChik · F

@LaylaTheTallGirl There are a lot of mixed-race marriages here now, with so many people filtering into Texas. To each their own.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@TexChik ok

TexChik · F

@LaylaTheTallGirl 😉

ViciDraco · 36-40, M

I'm white, my first real girlfriend was black. We met online, it was long distance. Because of my name she assumed I was black also. I don't know that I consciously made an assumption, but when we discovered each other's skin tones I was not surprised though she was mildly amused at her wrong assumptions. We met and bonded without knowing skin tone and after we knew it wasn't an issue.

I did have dreams about having to defend her and my choices against racist people, but even in those dreams it was only ever love for her and disappointment in those who would judge.

When we met in person it was amazing. I knew others might side eye but between her and me we didn't pay it any mind.

She joined the army and time, distance and the military itself drove us apart but whenever I think of her I still feel love for her even today.

She was beautiful and amazing and if I had listened to the old people who were against race mixing I would have missed out on some of my fondest memories.

Don't let those haters get you down.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@Carissimi I have when I dated my one of my exes who was Latino. We got called sellouts and harsh things

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