I enjoy the contrast in people.
I don't see community as needing uniformity. I see it as acceptance of differences while understanding the value in separate perspective, knowledge, experience. Valuing others without needing to relate. It's not easy. I get wrapped up in my own expectations sometimes but in the end, you can't control people. We wouldn't be the interesting and unique species that we are without the chaos we create. I'd still rather be a tree, but here we are.