Thanks Bijou !!! Even though we don’t agree on much, we can agree to disagree !!! and maintain civility. Which is rare on SW !!! I have always enjoyed talking with you and finding common ground when we can. @bijouxbroussard
@Purplehaze78 Yes! It’s so embarrassing. I often eavesdrop on other peoples conversations at work. Not because I’m interested in what they’re saying, but I’m praying that one of them says the others name so I don’t have to awkwardly tell them I don’t remember it. 😅
People around think I'm a know it all, because they have no education - and 6 years ago so did I, until I got a Bachelor's & then Master's degree and improved myself and my future while they are doing the same thing lol
@PDXNative1986 it's because i don't stay and chitchat with new aquintances, i can't remember their names. So they automatically assume i don't like them 😐
@Purplehaze78 Ah Ole Judgemental strikes again. Snap judgements suck, people really need to slow down and evaluate instead of just going on pure gut about other people, our instincts are good enough that they brought us this far but honestly if we habituate and just blindly trust them always all the time there's that one time when you know the roads are iced over and the car goes into a skid and your instinct is to slam the break but if you do the car goes into a spin and do that in the wrong place and your instincts/intuition just got you literally slammed into by on coming traffic and killed.
A lot of things about the modern world are counterintuitive.
Same when it comes to people- we really need to slow down and really take the time to be sure we're correct.
@Purplehaze78 Or when you have to address the person again, not knowing their name, knowing to ask them again will make you look like a total ass and just saying, oh, hey...
People think I’m a self loathing loser, it’s quite the opposite. I find it very hard to manage being a caring, genuine and sensitive person in today’s society. I have my moments like everyone but people think I’m too much. They don’t understand, don’t try, so fuck it.