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People think I’m a self loathing loser, it’s quite the opposite. I find it very hard to manage being a caring, genuine and sensitive person in today’s society. I have my moments like everyone but people think I’m too much. They don’t understand, don’t try, so fuck it.
monellla731 · 46-50, M
@BrokenAbyss Well they haven't walked a mile in your shoes hell they couldn't even put your shoes on!
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Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
@BrokenAbyss you know what's in your heart, don't mind what they say about you 🤗
people assume i am mean and tough. i am a sweet teddy bear. 😁
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
@YourMomsSecretCrush aww i bet you are 🤗
bijouxbroussard · F
@YourMomsSecretCrush Yeah I alway got the impression, even with different points of view, you’re good people. 😊
Thanks Bijou !!! Even though we don’t agree on much, we can agree to disagree !!! and maintain civility. Which is rare on SW !!! I have always enjoyed talking with you and finding common ground when we can. @bijouxbroussard
JustEd · 41-45, M
😂. I call so many people bud cause I can’t remember their name.
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
@JustEd i just tend to walk really fast 😹
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Degbeme · 70-79, M
This guy pretty much sums it up. 😬
SW-User
That I am a trouble maker.
SW-User
People around think I'm a know it all, because they have no education - and 6 years ago so did I, until I got a Bachelor's & then Master's degree and improved myself and my future while they are doing the same thing lol
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
@SW-User that's awesome that you got a bachelor's and a masterial's degree! 🤗
Reject · 26-30, M
I need to be reminded of your name a minimum of 5 times before you can expect me to have a chance at remembering it. 😂
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
@Reject you too huh? 😁
Reject · 26-30, M
@Purplehaze78 Yes! It’s so embarrassing. I often eavesdrop on other peoples conversations at work. Not because I’m interested in what they’re saying, but I’m praying that one of them says the others name so I don’t have to awkwardly tell them I don’t remember it. 😅
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
@Reject hey I should do that! Good tip 😁
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
Haha, I am horrible with names, I will meet someone new and it is as if I did not even listen to the person's name
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
@Lackwittyname dude i know the feeling 🤗
Then it's really embarrassing when someone asks you the name of the person you were just introduced to 😫😹
Then it's really embarrassing when someone asks you the name of the person you were just introduced to 😫😹
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
@Purplehaze78 Or when you have to address the person again, not knowing their name, knowing to ask them again will make you look like a total ass and just saying, oh, hey...
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
@Lackwittyname damn that's the worst that could happen 🙃
BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP
I don't recall snobbishness being associated with remembering people's names tho.
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
@BetweenKittensandRiots it's because i don't stay and chitchat with new aquintances, i can't remember their names. So they automatically assume i don't like them 😐
BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP
@Purplehaze78 Ah Ole Judgemental strikes again. Snap judgements suck, people really need to slow down and evaluate instead of just going on pure gut about other people, our instincts are good enough that they brought us this far but honestly if we habituate and just blindly trust them always all the time there's that one time when you know the roads are iced over and the car goes into a skid and your instinct is to slam the break but if you do the car goes into a spin and do that in the wrong place and your instincts/intuition just got you literally slammed into by on coming traffic and killed.
A lot of things about the modern world are counterintuitive.
Same when it comes to people- we really need to slow down and really take the time to be sure we're correct.
A lot of things about the modern world are counterintuitive.
Same when it comes to people- we really need to slow down and really take the time to be sure we're correct.
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
@BetweenKittensandRiots very well said! 🤗
Strongtea · 22-25, M
That’s weird, people think I’m a snob and I’m really bad at remembering names too!
I get so nervous if I need to introduce people!!!!!
I get so nervous if I need to introduce people!!!!!
4meAndyou · F
I suppose the biggest misconception might be that I actually like the people to whom I am polite.
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
@4meAndyou oh i get that too 🤗
Ducky · 31-35, F
That I’m a push-over. Sure, I’m shy and quiet, but those who think they can bully me around always get a surprise.
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
@Ducky as you should! Let them know never mess with a duck 😁
Unlearn · 41-45, M
So true! I usually go through several reviews before buying a book...
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
@Unlearn that's very wise 😁
Unlearn · 41-45, M
@Purplehaze78 Comes to me naturally... 😀
SW-User
People think I'm heartless.
Truth is... I take everything to heart, I just don't show that it's crushing me.
Truth is... I take everything to heart, I just don't show that it's crushing me.
RedBaron · M
Or by ITS cover. If someone did that with your post, they might think less of you for apostrophe ignorance.
SW-User
It might be that i really know what i'm talking about.
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
@SW-User hey that's a good thing, right?
SW-User
@Purplehaze78 Sure is!
monellla731 · 46-50, M
me i like nudity but i am actually shy and introverted
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
There is too many to choose from, I guess. Fuck em.
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
@Thevy29 exactly, fok em 😹
They think I am invisible I am not
Wiseacre · F
Same as urs...I am aloof not snobbish
SledgeHammer · 46-50, M
Not remembering names doesn't make you a big snob
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
@SledgeHammer around here it is 😔
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
Because I help and show kindness people think I am weak and try to take advantage.
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
@Justenjoyit aww that's not right, some people are just stoopid 🤗
bijouxbroussard · F
Basically, because I can be very serious, that I have no sense of humor at all.
SW-User
Not many people can remember what day it is at 90+
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
@SW-User good point 😁
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