people think I am a criminal because I have muscles and tats and a bald head. i am just a teddy bear.

People assume that I'm not that bright or just very 'girly'.

But...I ADORE Sci-Fi, love rock music and quite the devourer of books.

SJD x

Demeanour? GTFO.

That I have no sense of humour.

I mean that’s bollocks right?

im nice and love small talk 😑

People often think I have a stern demeanor (which I initially do), but they’re surprised at my smile and quiet voice.

Some that don't know me get nervous about my size. Yes, I am a big, muscular old guy that looks like 5 miles of bad road. Yet small children and dogs seem drawn to me, calm around me. Not complaining, I kinda get it, just sometimes I wonder.

Yes. Some see only my tattoos and piercings and think they should be weary of me even in 2026!!! It's cool though if they don't bother me I don't bother them. I'm really quite nice.

People have no idea how strong my mind is. They just see a smile.

They think I'm some meat head but I can't help it. The mines made me big. It happens to all of us.

people often assume i'm younger or hispanic..

Kog dont care

Most people think I'm some goodie two shoes for some reason. And that in an of itself....is some bullshit.

There's someone who I talk to on a daily basis on here for about 6 months now and he told me that all this time he thought I was white I have no idea why, it's never come up. Several people have told me that.

Yes, people make a laundry list of wild assumptions when it comes to me. Everything from whether or not I'm nice to what race or gender of sexual or romantic partners I prefer.

Apparently, I lack self confidence... I do not lack self confidence at all. I just have a more realistic view of my own abilities.

Either I'm super innocent or I'm stuck up and unapproachable

That I'm timid and afraid to speak my mind just because I'm an introvert and come off reserved and quiet ..

They have no idea until my mind has spoke then they're like 👀