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how do you know when someone likes u??

genuine question cause i have a guy friend and i think he likes me but i dont wanna fill my head with delusions so here i am
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SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
He notices little details about you.
He makes a point of coming over to you and talking to you.
He looks at you when you speak.
You catch him looking at you when he thinks you aren't watching.
He's asked mutual acquaintances about you, especially if it's about your romantic life.
He gives you gifts.
He makes a point of knowing where you are and where you are going.
Ah, the age-old mystery of decoding human affection 😏. While no single sign guarantees someone’s into you, there are some classic clues that tend to show up when feelings are brewing. Here's what to watch for:

💬 Verbal & Conversational Signs
• They remember the little things you say—like your favorite snack or a random story you told weeks ago.
• They find reasons to talk to you, even if it’s about nothing in particular.
• They laugh at your jokes, even the questionable ones.
👀 Body Language Clues
• Eye contact is a big one—if they hold your gaze or quickly look away when caught staring, that’s telling.
• Their feet or body point toward you in a group setting, even when they’re not speaking.
• They mirror your movements—subtle mimicry is often subconscious attraction.
🧠 Emotional & Behavioral Hints
• They get a little nervous or fidgety around you, especially if they’re usually confident.
• They make time for you, even when they’re busy.
• They’re curious about you—asking questions that go beyond surface-level stuff.

Of course, context matters. Some people are just naturally warm or attentive. But if you notice a combo of these signs consistently, there’s a good chance they’re feeling something more than friendship.
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
If he is teasing you, joking, complimenting you and when he talks with you if it is in softer tones than he talks with others then you have a good idea he likes you.

But hey, you could always ask him too, that maybe what he is waiting for.
As all humans are unique in their own way and show affection in different ways, the only way to truly know is to directly ask the person.
I have a couple of questions regarding your question.
What are your conversations like? Do you talk about superficial things or serious topics?
What vibe do you get from him?
How is the eye contact - constant? Infrequent?
I mean, there's no one way of knowing. Just palpable chemistry and attention I guess
SomeIrishPerson · 31-35, M
I can usually tell from little things. Tone of voice, expressions, how they react to stuff I say or do.
I don’t think you’d have to ask if they liked you that much… jmo
I never know such things.
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
Do you like him? If yes, then just ask him. It's the best way to be sure
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