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TinyViolins · 31-35, M
I've learned a while back that there's a big difference between being nice and being kind.
Nice people want others to like them, want to feel good about themselves, want something in return for their acts. They turn good deeds into a performance.
Kind people do things because they're empathetic beings that see someone in need of help. They don't want anything in return. They just want to do their part to relieve other people's suffering
Nice people want others to like them, want to feel good about themselves, want something in return for their acts. They turn good deeds into a performance.
Kind people do things because they're empathetic beings that see someone in need of help. They don't want anything in return. They just want to do their part to relieve other people's suffering
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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@mindstruggle I mean someone who is typically selfish and usually doesn't do anything nice for you even when they're in the position to. They usually choose themselves. And in order to feel like a good person, they're nice to you on the rare occasion they think it makes them a good person, not because they enjoy being nice. And you can tell because they shoo you away afterwards thinking you should be appeased and grateful. Like their kindness is a sign from the universe... Because otherwise they don't let you finish your sentences without talking about themselves.
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Yeah, that makes a lot of sense… it must feel disappointing when someone only shows kindness for their own image.
Yeah, that makes a lot of sense… it must feel disappointing when someone only shows kindness for their own image.
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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@MicrowaveDinner Yep! That's exactly what I'm talking about. That's the same thought I had in my mind when they did were being nice.
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GuiltyBiStander · 31-35, F
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@GuiltyBiStander until they use it against you in an argument later. Glad you don't know people like that.
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smiler2012 · 61-69
@ScreamingFox 🤔maybe it is best not to read into to there reasons and motive if selfish or not just see it as a nice gesture
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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@WaryWitchWandering yup, that's the stuff lol
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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@basilfawlty89 it's cruel. They erode your trust.
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