I Have a Question

I'm a dance instructor and I find that some of my customers/students are a little shy and I usually get to know their names and give them recognition for various reasons. They may have on a cute outfit, have a great groove or whatever and it helps.
So, I've also gone as far as introducing students to one another in small talk after or before class. It helps bring walls down and ppl have been able to be less shy. I love when ppl become friends.
Maybe you can speak w your Yoga instructor, sharing this topic with them and see if your instructor can maybe ask the customers out for coffee after class. This starts fun times and conversation happens organically.
You'll see :>
It works. I've done this and loved the results

@NoraOnora: I will definitely try and ask her. Not sure if it will be awkward for her. Maybe we can talk over pm if that is ok with you?

i don't think it will be awkward for her. Maybe you can invite people and make it a fun adventure. You never know how fun it can turn out to be

Or... I'm not sure where you are in the world, but there's this activities group called MeetUp and they have "meetups" all the time. I attend them alone and I end up meetimg all sorts of cool people. I've met up for a dragon rowing team, a few hiking adventures, a work out group, a singing group, a comedy/kareoke meet up gathering, several paranormal investigation meet up groups, storytelling one.... you may love it!

so just refrain complimenting on her smile, eyes etc?

Few examples?

@nightwing316: how are you enjoying the party?
Is there anything I can get you? A simply but sincere how are you? Most people like to talk. Show sincere interest in what they find interesting and you have a great conversation

@GJOFJ3: I will definitely try. Continuing the conversation is harder than starting.

Define normal?

What do you suggest?

@Vintage06: True. I am not ashamed of myself just I have social anxiety starting a conversation, be it online or IRL.

Well don't you are perfect the what you are !

@Vintage06: thank you. You are very kind :)

No need to be awkward. Thank you for your suggestion :D Usually those small talks don't usually get anywhere hence I stop myself from saying anything.

Hence I am asking here. Someone suggested complimenting is the best way but it does sounds odd for me to complement a total stranger.

I think most people start with complaining about weather but it's a dead end topic and doesn't go anywhere.