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lonelyloner · 31-35, F

with time i became expert of hiding myself from the people around people

popmol · 22-25, M

@lonelyloner why won't you show yourself and what you feel to others?

lonelyloner · 31-35, F

@popmol bcoz i never have any expectation from them

popmol · 22-25, M

@lonelyloner ooh ;(

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

No. None really understands.

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popmol · 22-25, M

@GuyWithOpinions why not explain even though they don't get it?

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

@popmol i have. Im just yired of the argument going nowhere

popmol · 22-25, M

@GuyWithOpinions argument? is what you're going through an argument?

TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F

In life, nobody really cares what you’re going through. It sucks but it’s reality. Ive learned this the hard way. Especially on here.

popmol · 22-25, M

@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart i'm not sure about that!

LadyGrace ·

@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart I bet some do. I care. I'm not perfect and I make mistakes, but I care. And I hope you are doing well and feeling your best. 🌹

Maturebate · 70-79, M

@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart I really don't expect anyone else to care to the extent that it makes any difference. Some will acknowledge some will say that they understand but it is b.s. Too many expect their problems to be solved by others -welfare state mentality. It is not the duty of others to solve your issues. Grow a pair and get on!

AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

In real life, no. I don't say a peep. First, nobody cares, second, if I have to listen to fake encouragement I get sad.

popmol · 22-25, M

@AlchemyFox what about real encouragement?

Iwillwait · M

@AlchemyFox 🤗

DarlingSelah ·

Yeah they don't care tho. I don't blame them lol

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LadyGrace ·

@DarlingSelah I bet some do

DarlingSelah ·

@popmol idk people have their own stuff going on

popmol · 22-25, M

@DarlingSelah unfortunately!

Sanatio · F

Who really knows anyone, we all have our secrets

popmol · 22-25, M

@Sanatio yes, and i still want to know where you found your dragon!

Casheyane · F

@popmol @Sanatio Oooh. What kind? Dragon where?
👀

popmol · 22-25, M

@Casheyane she is called enter the dragon so i assumed she knows a dragon!

mindstruggle

irl? No. I don’t want them to know tho.

popmol · 22-25, M

@mindstruggle how come?

mindstruggle

@popmol
They might be going through something I don't know. I prefer to be a ray of sunshine for them. I can carry my own baggage just fine.

popmol · 22-25, M

@mindstruggle i'm glad to hear! but i'm jsut imagine you as a pokemon using solar beam!

Soossie

No …. I don’t usually talk to anyone about my problems in life ….

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calicuz · 51-55, M

@Soossie

Soossie

@calicuz

Lol … exactly …. ;)

popmol · 22-25, M

@Soossie scary! 🫣😱

ExtremeNext · 31-35

They have no idea
It's hard work being the chick on SW everybody wants to have sex with

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travelguy01 · 41-45, M

@ExtremeNext

ExtremeNext · 31-35

@travelguy01

popmol · 22-25, M

@ExtremeNext i'm terrified of any sexual relationship, so i'd rather not, if i did want a piece you are a pig in your profile picture so some nice met would be nice but it would be for dinner at new years 🤪

calicuz · 51-55, M

No, and no one would ever understand................. I'm actually kinda complicated.

popmol · 22-25, M

@calicuz can i least learn of it, then afterwards i can decipher!

calicuz · 51-55, M

@popmol

We would have to go in stages, if you heard it all at once you wouldn't believe me. 😎

popmol · 22-25, M

@calicuz i could make an epic of fantastical proportions about it though!
well let's start at chapter one!

Jenny1234 · 51-55, F

I’m very careful about who I tell private stuff to. So no. Most people do not know

popmol · 22-25, M

@Jenny1234 how come?

Fairydust · F

Nope.

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popmol · 22-25, M

@Fairydust how come?

Fairydust · F

@popmol

It’s hard to explain or for others to really understand. Unless they’ve been through it.

popmol · 22-25, M

@Fairydust ooh that doesn't sound good ;(

Casheyane · F

Nope.

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popmol · 22-25, M

@Casheyane haha no! i lost 15+ kilos but not yet enough for those!

Casheyane · F

@popmol Good job :) One step at a time and eventually, you've climbed a mountain.

Pat yourself on the back. It takes strong will and effort to even try and here you are, already doing it :) I'm proud of you.

But do take care and do just enough. Don't overdo it.

popmol · 22-25, M

@Casheyane thanks a lot :)

haha i'll try i might have already done too much!

Raaii · 22-25, F

[c=800000]no really not
Sometimes I feel it's not good to hold up everything in my mind so I should talk
I've gotten no much friend
I'll try to communicate
I can do but they'll never understand
It has happened a lot to me
Sometimes I write briefly and I get those similiar big big advices which I can't use
I know but I feel grateful atleast they care to comment
That's a lot
Though it's all just worthless I just laugh and get on to m business
So many unsolved problems
It can't be helped [/c]

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Raaii · 22-25, F

@popmol [c=800000] nothing seems small [/c]

popmol · 22-25, M

@Raaii well a lot of small things become big!

Raaii · 22-25, F

@popmol [c=800000]yes that's it[/c]

Musicman · 61-69, M

Absolutely not! Only my wife knows.

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popmol · 22-25, M

@Musicman ooh! are you paranoid?

Musicman · 61-69, M

@popmol Paranoid??? Noooooo! Lol!!! 😂😂😂 I would just feel bad if people knew.

popmol · 22-25, M

@Musicman ooh that makes more sense! although paranoid would work too!

jehova · 31-35, M

No ppl do not but to be fair i barely do either. I had a brain tumor removed and i still keep waking up in a hospital with no idea what happened. Im finally home. . Im pretty sure. Hard to know. Likewise i published the research identifying and explaining the nutritional cause of my tumor. It was and is high fructose corn syrup. Which is analogue of phytomercury and results in cancer and tumor growth. I thus had brain surgery as a result of the tumor that was caused by the hfcs in most foods. Im hypersensative to it too turns out. So it might be the industry actually ttying to kill me that keeps resulting in my wakng up in a nearby hospital with yet another brain tumor from toxic mercury in almost every part of the americas food supply. Or am i the crazy one? I published at 13 years old in 2003 after the brain stroke that same mercury likely caused. . So by now it should be common knowledge. Is it? Seems its still in much of everything. Poisoning the public in the name of capitalism. I finally got home after thiis latest brain surgery. About 4 months afterward. Yay?

popmol · 22-25, M

@jehova thats tough?.

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

Oh yeah.
My struggles are what make me who I am and
I am not shy about sharing all of it with everyone.

popmol · 22-25, M

@Dainbramadge well that's good!

thinkingoutloud · F

No.

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popmol · 22-25, M

@thinkingoutloud did i miss some secret message?

thinkingoutloud · F

@popmol I realised I wrote the wrong comment. Or wrong post.

popmol · 22-25, M

@thinkingoutloud and here i hoped you'd lead me on a whole adventure to figure out your secrets! 🥲

Carissimi · 70-79, F

Not really.

popmol · 22-25, M

@Carissimi is there a reason for it??

Carissimi · 70-79, F

A reason for people not knowing? There is no point in sharing most things for various reasons. Culture changes, trust, tired of hearing same old same old ... you can only complain about something so much before you get tired of hearing it yourself, let alone others listening to you. I did most of mine on EP, but culture has changed a lot since those days. People are less trustworthy, more judgmental, and have enough problems of their own. One day comes, and you resign yourself to the current situation whether you like it or not. @popmol

popmol · 22-25, M

@Carissimi i'm sorry to hear you reach that point ;(

pride49 · 31-35, M

No idea. Probably. Since there are more than 7 billion ppl on the planet. Im just hoping for death. Ive lost my will to fight or care. About anything. I guess maybe I do care about some things? I guess I care about .along my life less annoying for the time being

popmol · 22-25, M

@pride49 quite understandable. i'd say don't give up. but it would not be honest coming from my mouth!

TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 41-45, MVIP

popmol · 22-25, M

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout sure.

SW-User

Just the bits I vent publicly, not many really know the full extent

popmol · 22-25, M

@SW-User will you reveal it at some time?

SW-User

@popmol I think it’s too much for people to handle

popmol · 22-25, M

@SW-User that's no good! share little bits to weight people down with small bits to hold you up!

deadteddy · 26-30, F

Only one person but not entirely. Did you get to make the Croquembouche for Christmas ?

popmol · 22-25, M

@deadteddy i was planning to send you a message and no, the caramel i made didn't get hard enough when cooled. so it fell apart, so it became profiterole mountain!

can i also know? i'm intrigued!

SW-User

No
But I'm ok with that
Everyone has their own things to deal with

popmol · 22-25, M

@SW-User still though ;(

kodiac · 22-25, M

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popmol · 22-25, M

@kodiac do you know something about the matrix we don't?

kodiac · 22-25, M

@popmol Not the matrix ,just reality

popmol · 22-25, M

@kodiac 😱

Iwillwait · M

No, but in all honesty, I am only sharing work related issues.

popmol · 22-25, M

@Iwillwait then its tough for them to know!

WhateverWorks · 36-40

A bit. Mostly no

popmol · 22-25, M

@WhateverWorks why only that small bit?

WhateverWorks · 36-40

@popmol hard to paraphrase. Some of the people aren’t particularly good at empathy and compassion. The other people I might talk to under different circumstances. I’m not right now because what’s going on it’s too close to home for them.