Would you be able to help carry a coffin?

I've had to do that around 5 times so far in my life, and it doesn't get any easier.

I have been a pallbearer at many funerals

I have never been asked but I would if someone did ask me.

I have done so twice so far..

Have done it a few times.

i have done it a few times.

depends
is it meant for me?

Why not