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Yes I have been naive, I have sought love in the wrong places, I have been a mark

I have had a traumatic childhood. Y'all would NOT understand unless you had been through it. I am so sick and tired of people blaming me for the actions of others TOWARD me. I didn't KNOW the men were bad when I hung out with them, and when i DID, I left, I got law enforcement involved, etc. I have been teaching mySELF what I know in life. I did not have a loving family!! Do you know what it is like to be thrown to the wolves without care or guidance?! Thanks for those who love to kick a girl when she is down, even though she is a homebody who is MOSTLY at home reading or watching a show, or playing fetch with her cat and best friend of 17 years. Some of you absolutely love to kick people when they are down, and publicly.

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being · 36-40, F

I can see you and your light very clearly and the people you are referring to are unfortunately blind people, carrying their own unbearable weight but unlike us, they haven't yet been blessed with seeing it..
And therefore, be able to change and transform.

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foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@being @Matt85 fml y'all are about to get me emotional again. i love you too 🥺🥺🥺

Matt85 · 36-40, M

@foldedunfolding you're special, I swear...forgive my flattery.

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@Matt85 awww i am special ED, at best!!

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

You sound exactly like me. I feel the same way.

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@DearAmbellina2113 I have definitely seen you talk about your mother wound. If people understood, I would hope they wouldn't have a field day kicking us when we are down, or blaming us for not sussing out the character of people who, in some way or another, remind us of our mothers..until it is too late. And for me to be stable financially, have a quality group of friends now, not have so much as a misdemeanor, have 822 credit..criminals SEE what I have and WANT it..and can do DASTARDLY THINGS to deceive me into getting it.

Babal · 41-45, M

I would say don't internalize society's cruelty..Its better to love yourself the right way than find love in the wrong places .

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@Babal I am working on this..it has beena very fraught journey, but I am trying. I think I may have complex ptsd.

Babal · 41-45, M

@foldedunfolding ohh okay,I wish you success in your endeavours

HootyTheNightOwl

@Babal That's easier said than done, though.

Speakyourmind · 26-30, M

Sorry to hear your troubles. No one should go through this.

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Speakyourmind · 26-30, M

@foldedunfolding they rarely do and what makes it worse that those who lack the feelings judge those who they do not even know anything about.

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@Speakyourmind i really, really appreciate your kindness

Speakyourmind · 26-30, M

@foldedunfolding You’re welcome. Glad that my words comforted you in some way.

MarbleMarvel

There are some who love to pick at abuse survivors. They have zero understanding and should stick to their own normal kind.

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foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@MarbleMarvel I am legit drowning in tears right now and it just turned 7am..thank you thank you thank you..i need you to understand, if not for people like you and a God like mine..I would not BE HERE.

MarbleMarvel

@foldedunfolding keep being here please. You're lovely and tbh it's a super powerful to keep going after having gone through so much. Even though the last thing we need is to "get stronger", you can be gentle with yourself where others are not. You absolutely deserve that kindness and love. Sending warm hugs 🤗

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@MarbleMarvel awwww thank you soo much..i haaate that i am still dealing with this, after all these years

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