Yes I have been naive, I have sought love in the wrong places, I have been a mark

I have had a traumatic childhood. Y'all would NOT understand unless you had been through it. I am so sick and tired of people blaming me for the actions of others TOWARD me. I didn't KNOW the men were bad when I hung out with them, and when i DID, I left, I got law enforcement involved, etc. I have been teaching mySELF what I know in life. I did not have a loving family!! Do you know what it is like to be thrown to the wolves without care or guidance?! Thanks for those who love to kick a girl when she is down, even though she is a homebody who is MOSTLY at home reading or watching a show, or playing fetch with her cat and best friend of 17 years. Some of you absolutely love to kick people when they are down, and publicly.

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DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

You sound exactly like me. I feel the same way.

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@DearAmbellina2113 I have definitely seen you talk about your mother wound. If people understood, I would hope they wouldn't have a field day kicking us when we are down, or blaming us for not sussing out the character of people who, in some way or another, remind us of our mothers..until it is too late. And for me to be stable financially, have a quality group of friends now, not have so much as a misdemeanor, have 822 credit..criminals SEE what I have and WANT it..and can do DASTARDLY THINGS to deceive me into getting it.