I just want a guy with high emotional intelligence as simple as that why is it still hard to find that??🤔🤦🥲

I don’t see that happening - but there is a proviso. Men, generally speaking, aren’t known for emotional intelligence. We’re trained from birth to be strong and non-emotional. Neither has anything to do with raw intelligence.

So, how do you find one? You find someone you care enough to train. If you care, and he perceives it as such, he’ll grow. Will he grow to perfection? No. But, he’s fully capable of both strength and emotional support. It’s going to take time and doubt and pain; but, the end product should be worth the wait.

That’s the quandary. Is he worth the time? How fast is your time clock ticking? Is your effort showing results? It’s not easy. But remember, you are being judged as well - emotionally and physically.

How do you define emotional intelligence?... and why do you insist on it. A certain amount of it is ok, but I think you may be insisting on something that doens't come natural to a guy. Women have their lists - but sometimes they can't see past those lists.

I’m sure they exist, but I do get you. A lot of the people I know are not emotionally intelligent (we’re still pretty young admittedly.)

I just want someone who doesnt constantly complain as simple as that why is it still hard to find that??🤔🤦🥲
which is why I dont search on SW 🤣

I KNOW RIGHT

There aren't many people out there with emotional intelligence anymore. Definitely not many men. It's actually sad, humanity is going down a bad path.

I just want a million dollars , why is it so hard to find 😔

Where do you find them?

have you checked the friend zone?

Where are you searching?

Like, being able to sense how someone else feels?

They are very rare.

People who are emotionally childish breed more. Just imagine them trying to have any self control. It's the same with low IQ people, they don't have any control over themselves either. They have sex indiscriminately like reptiles they don't use birth control or don't use it very well. There are more offspring. That's why you see The National Enquirer at the checkout instead of Scientific American.

Men run on autopilot

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