I just want a guy with high emotional intelligence as simple as that why is it still hard to find that??🤔🤦🥲

I don’t see that happening - but there is a proviso. Men, generally speaking, aren’t known for emotional intelligence. We’re trained from birth to be strong and non-emotional. Neither has anything to do with raw intelligence.

So, how do you find one? You find someone you care enough to train. If you care, and he perceives it as such, he’ll grow. Will he grow to perfection? No. But, he’s fully capable of both strength and emotional support. It’s going to take time and doubt and pain; but, the end product should be worth the wait.

That’s the quandary. Is he worth the time? How fast is your time clock ticking? Is your effort showing results? It’s not easy. But remember, you are being judged as well - emotionally and physically.