I just want a guy with high emotional intelligence as simple as that why is it still hard to find that??🤔🤦🥲

People who are emotionally childish breed more. Just imagine them trying to have any self control. It's the same with low IQ people, they don't have any control over themselves either. They have sex indiscriminately like reptiles they don't use birth control or don't use it very well. There are more offspring. That's why you see The National Enquirer at the checkout instead of Scientific American.