@bugeye It doesn't matter what gets his motor running as long as you're the recipient of his motivation to have sex? That's actually a sad admission but incredibly funny nonetheless!
I watch, and my wife watches, and we watch together. If I see something she would like, I show her and vice versa! Good way to communicate your desires or fantasies.
Sadly, the real answer is… It depends. It could be. Could not be. If the woman knows and approves, then I would say it is not cheating. However, if she doesn’t and the man is using porn to supplant having a sexual relationship with his wife, then it’s probably cheating.
Marriage & divorce is getting so stupid that individual's space is invaded. If there is a system to visualise what one is thinking or dreaming, I think every marriage can be annulled. What needs to be reviewed is the marrige system itself, which can actually be scrapped.
I always felt that if theyre just going to watch porn when I would have given it freely then I dont need to feel obligated to engage in anything sexual.
@NeuroticByNature It's common to watch things that we do. The person you're with will probably watch porn even if they enjoy having sex with you. People play sports and video games, but still watch other people play sports and video games.