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Is watching Porn consider cheating?

Poll - Total Votes: 117
Yes, it's cheating
No, every guy watches and doesn't mean anything
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Like the topic says, do you consider watching porn cheating on your SO?

I came across a podcast and the wife wants to divorce her husband after catching him watching porn.

Is porn really that bad and do you consider as a form of cheating?

To me, growing up, I always knew guys enjoy watching porn. Even my husband watches from time to time. I never thought it was a big deal at all.
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bugeye · 26-30, F
It doesn't matter what gets his motor running so long as he parks in the correct garage.

I dont mind it. Even watch some myself when im bored and hes away. It can be a great way to find new things to try
alan20 · M
@bugeye Sensible.
swirlie · 31-35
@bugeye
It doesn't matter what gets his motor running as long as you're the recipient of his motivation to have sex? That's actually a sad admission but incredibly funny nonetheless!
wetncthru · F
@alan20 Honest too.
Maritocorneo · 56-60, M
I watch, and my wife watches, and we watch together. If I see something she would like, I show her and vice versa! Good way to communicate your desires or fantasies.
swirlie · 31-35
@Maritocorneo
Very true! It's a great way to satisfy one's curiosity together as a couple!
I consider it wrong on more levels than just cheating but I wouldn't leave someone over it because no one is perfect. I would ask them to work on it.
A little porn occasionally is not bad, quite normal. An addiction to porn...way different. I have known people that became so caught up in their porn fetishes that they had a difficult time when with their mate, their mind so occupied with thoughts of what they like to view they could not perform. I do know it happened to male friends of mine but do not know how prevalent it may be
Chiefjustice · 46-50, M
I think it is kow widely accepted thing. However it has serious side effects for men. And is considered as addictive as drugs.
Do you watch it with him? Have you ever thought its negative effects.
no I don't think so, to me it is a sexual education, your wife will also benefit. from your learning experience.
Bowenw · 61-69, M
I think it's okay for both partners to watch occasionally alone or together provided it's not an addiction and negatively affecting the relationship.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
It doesn't bother me at all, I watch it too.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@stelu too wild to mention here
stelu · 46-50, M
@DearAmbellina2113 Do you masturbate all the time when you watch porn?
I do it and it goes on for hours.
stelu · 46-50, M
@DearAmbellina2113 Can you answer me in a private message?
GinPanda · 26-30, F
Every relationship has its own parameters but for me no I do not consider that an issue
bert199 · 51-55, M
Not at all as long as he gives her all the attention she can handle. In fact, I like a girl that watches porn and would be thrilled with the idea of her watching porn while I’m at work, filling her head with dirty thoughts to act upon when I get home.
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
Sadly, the real answer is…
It depends. It could be. Could not be. If the woman knows and approves, then I would say it is not cheating. However, if she doesn’t and the man is using porn to supplant having a sexual relationship with his wife, then it’s probably cheating.
Convivial · 26-30, F
If it leads to a better relationship, why not?
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
I don't think so. And not only that but it's even more fun if you have a partner who enjoys watching it with you
Bklynbadboy12 · 36-40, M
That depends on you and the peramiters you and your partner set for your relationship but to me its now
Fullly agree on this.
jackson55 · M
We have in the past watched it together.
alan20 · M
I don't consider it to be. I don't believe these days in monogamy.
Noreaster · F
Again it really depends on the relationship.
1490wayb · 56-60, M
wish i had someone😟
swirlie · 31-35
@1490wayb
What about Mary Poppins and her 4 daughters? I'm sure they'd be your friends! 🫴🏻
HairbrushDiva · 36-40, F
I don't consider it cheating.
stelu · 46-50, M
@HairbrushDiva You're right.
You watch something that pleases you and makes you feel good in those moments.
WasEP · 51-55, M
I sure hope not !! 😂
No, not at all.
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
I don't think it is cheating. I watch porn
Good Night, sleep well.
FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, MVIP
Nope, not cheating.
I love your profile pic!
BohoBabe · M
JackJames · M
I’ll say this. Porn is not cheating. However, if a guy chooses porn over you, then find someone better.
Marriage & divorce is getting so stupid that individual's space is invaded. If there is a system to visualise what one is thinking or dreaming, I think every marriage can be annulled. What needs to be reviewed is the marrige system itself, which can actually be scrapped.
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
I always felt that if theyre just going to watch porn when I would have given it freely then I dont need to feel obligated to engage in anything sexual.
BohoBabe · M
@NeuroticByNature I talk IRL, but I also watch podcasts.
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
@BohoBabe can you elaborate?
BohoBabe · M
@NeuroticByNature It's common to watch things that we do. The person you're with will probably watch porn even if they enjoy having sex with you. People play sports and video games, but still watch other people play sports and video games.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
Its not cheating. If it becomes more important than the partner though, then its a problem.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Kuronekko do you watch porn? 🙈
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@MartinTheFirst Only if it's good 🤷🏻
oldguy73 · 70-79, M
well, think about it, he is not cheating on you, right???, you can even say to him, want me to do that, who knows, try it
DavyPNW · 56-60, M
Wife would say "yes"
JackDaniels · 46-50, M
Guess it just depends on each couple.
Don't think so, just entertainment
love when she has her friends over for an evening of porn. usually put my hand in my pocket and rub myself. have been caught on occasion and dropped my pants and let them watch
swirlie · 31-35
@bob01
OH my god, stop! You're making me all wet just thinking about you rubbing yourself from inside your pocket as we all watch a porn flick together in your living room! 🥵

Somebody, please... make him stop!
DarkRoast · 46-50, F
@swirlie LOL
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
Sometimes people are into strange things and that is the only place they get it.
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
Women watch it, too.
kamikaze2891 · 31-35, M
what ever tickle your pickle
HotPizza71 · 51-55, M
Loving the new profile pic 👅
GuidanceCounselor · 56-60, M
Only to women who are afraid they are being replaced
hunkalove · 70-79, M
Maybe not cheating but certainly a waste of time. Looking at porn is like being hungry and looking at a photo of a pizza. No life to be lived there.
TexChik · F
Depends on how bad you chip your tooth on the computer screen! 🤣
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vidjee8720 · 36-40, M
irq just a fast way to get the demons out lol
Northwest · M
Missing option 4: Depends on why the SO is watching porn.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
It really shouldn’t be a big deal if either spouse watches porn occasionally
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
No, it's not cheating.
Also your profile pic 🤤
BigImo · 26-30, F
There's really no such thing as cheating
errytime' you touch yourselves jesus takes a baby to heaven...
BohoBabe · M
If it is, then literally everyone in a relationship is cheating.
SW-User
Nope, its not engaging in sex with someone other than your spouse/sig other
JFinch · 41-45, F

 
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