No, it’s not hard to be faithful.

I'm not going to claim that faithfulness is easy, and it's not even what some people think it is. What's love for instance? It's more than passion, sensuality, eroticism. It's about been able to care for someone with whom one wants to share those. Now back to faithfulness. You think that doing anything that would cause hurt to someone who one already "loves" is really love in the first place, or even that the person (still) knows what it really is? I'd advice anyone to set the person straight first of all. Tell him that love is precious because it's linked with caring for a person and not just any old sex position nor kinky domineering session and the like

Good. SOME men are dogs. You can't treat them like friends and brothers because they don't think of YOU that way. What a shame. I feel so sorry for his fiance.

Many men are faithful and regard fidelity as a core value.

But....not all men.

This must have been devastating.

My husband started cheating when I was pregnant. I didn’t find out until years later.

Sounds like you have a very intimate relationship with him. That can provoke desires. My husband slept with a close friend of mine.

Sounds like he isn’t married. That used to make a difference.

No it was easy for me.

[quote]He's advised me and listened to my relationship issues like a big brother![/quote]
So, he found the opportunity here.
Well, be careful. Viper may strike in the most unexpected way.

He did the wrong thing.

I hope your friendship can continue once it is talked about.

If you choose to continue, he has a lot of work to do.

thats because he has someone already and wasnt afraid of your possible rejection

Did you tell her?

That is sad, just when you think you can trust someone. Sorry this happened to you. 😕

Not hard at all. I have done it through almost 8 years of dating and all of our married life.

That is sad, but, were the art things anything suggestive,?

50% of men and women cheat.

It isn't for me. He was likely just waiting to jump on you. I don't do that with my women friends.

Anyway who made up this thing that you have to just have sex with one person for the rest of your life?