Why is masturbation often seen as such a negative thing?
Poll - Total Votes: 82
It's horrible and dirty in men
It's acceptable in men but let's keep it vanilla
It's sexy and body confident in men, anything goes
It's horrible and dirty in women
It's acceptable in women but let's keep it vanilla
It's sexy and body confident in women, anything goes
You may vote on multiple answers, up to 2.
It's seen as a dirty horrible thing. The jokes about crunchy socks in teenage boys bedrooms and old men knocking one of the wrist, having a sticky stash of porn when it was just magazines that were available, never seem to get old.
The insult that someone is a wanker too. It carries a kind of insinuation that the wanker involved is some how sad, pathetic or lacks intelligence and self control.
But if you're on your own, or you're with a partner who's sex drive doesn't match yours or they lost it completely. What are you supposed to do? Just be horny and frustrated?
What about women who openly admit to doing it? Somehow it doesn't seem women are judged as much. Maybe it's even seen as a bit sexy if you're a woman.
Or maybe it depends on how? Is there a different perception of a woman using her fingers to pleasure herself than there is using toys and properly fucking herself with them?
What about anal masturbation, using nipple clamps, enemas or self spanking?
I mean, it doesn't really matter either way. I'm still going to do it but I was just thinking about the way it's seen. What do you honestly think about masturbation?
The insult that someone is a wanker too. It carries a kind of insinuation that the wanker involved is some how sad, pathetic or lacks intelligence and self control.
But if you're on your own, or you're with a partner who's sex drive doesn't match yours or they lost it completely. What are you supposed to do? Just be horny and frustrated?
What about women who openly admit to doing it? Somehow it doesn't seem women are judged as much. Maybe it's even seen as a bit sexy if you're a woman.
Or maybe it depends on how? Is there a different perception of a woman using her fingers to pleasure herself than there is using toys and properly fucking herself with them?
What about anal masturbation, using nipple clamps, enemas or self spanking?
I mean, it doesn't really matter either way. I'm still going to do it but I was just thinking about the way it's seen. What do you honestly think about masturbation?
46-50, F
