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The guy Ive been dating wants to try bondage in bed. Im a little nervous. Any suggestions?

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You both have to discuss boundaries and limitations with each other, but, most importantly you have to be fully on board and build trust. Then start slow,don't do the full bondage experience all at once take baby steps. Who is doing the tying??
EmilysSecret · 31-35, FNew
exexec · 70-79, C
My wife enjoyed it occasionally, and I always used soft materials such as old neckties to tie her. It is important to have a safe word if he does something that you don't like.
Convivial · 26-30, F
I think knowing and trusting are the key words here... And only you know the answer to that ...
EmilysSecret · 31-35, FNew
@Convivial we tried ot last night
WanderlustCat · 36-40, M
I really enjoyed the experience.

Panamared · 70-79, M
If you trust him, try it twice, the first time you will not know what to expect or whats going on and you will be nervous, decide after the second time if it is something you want to continue. Have a safe word, if that word is not respected he will not repect you anywhere
BrandNewMan · 61-69, M
Pick a safe word.

As with all things, start with basics and see how it goes.
EmilysSecret · 31-35, FNew
@BrandNewMan we did. Im very sore.
BrandNewMan · 61-69, M
@EmilysSecret Perhaps a discussion with him about the experience and what you did/did not enjoy, what you do/do not agree to if there is to be a next time, re @Seniorsecurity's guidance.
EmilysSecret · 31-35, FNew
@BrandNewMan its complicated
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
bondage can be a lot of fun. Me and my husband do it all the time
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
Start slow
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
It's been three hours, did you try it?
EmilysSecret · 31-35, FNew
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Tie him up first. That way you can control what happens in safety.
EmilysSecret · 31-35, FNew
@Thevy29 too submissive to ever do that
YoMomma ·
i wouldn't.. too many psychos out there
2ndtimeguy · 61-69, M
Tie him up first and gag him then ask what next?

 
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