Is anything acceptable as long as it remains a fantasy?

@BohemianBabe he was a terrible president but entitled to live his way.

@LustControl He lived like a loser.

@BohemianBabe Did a lot for habitat for humanity.

@Repete I think that is the rational way to look at it. In surveys of sex fantasies of women several are things they say they would never do in real life.

The Pre-cogs ever read minds many people would be in trouble.

That is for sure . And many would be people you least expect @LustControl

@CrazyMusicLover some believe even the thought in your own mind is wrong, a sin, should be illegal.

@LustControl They might believe whatever they want to, they luckily have zero control over it in other people.

@Nanori or make you obsessed with actually doing it?

@LustControl 🤷‍♀️ let's just say it's okay as long it stays in ur head
Anymore discussion about it will only make things unnecessarily complicated

@Nanori life an be pretty complicated.

@LustControl Fantasies are good but when turning into reality, they should not bring force or harm on others.

@thedesi123 ok. Not really considering whether they should become reality. I was just thinking about some that want to regulate acceptable fantasies. True many fantasies should not be acted out. Just like many books or movies.

@LustControl You got a valid point there.

@LustControl I think some peoples thoughts are a dangerous precursor to actually doing something illegal and immoral and as such, should be kept in check.

@SW-User kept in check to prevent doing them or to stop thinking about them?

@LustControl possibly both? I'm not the expert but Im sure there's a time when people who go on to hurt children had just thoughts about doing that, same with people who go out and harm rape or kill.

@Hecate000 Even religious leaders and law makers who profess the contrary find them embroidered in some ugly sexual scandals. No one other than ourselves can police our thoughts.

@eMortal I think far more sexual acts are accepted now than used to be. I doubt the Catholic Church controls the fantasies of most members. As I recall when the pope reaffirmed that use of the pill was a sin, a high majority of those that considered themselves Catholic would continue to ignore the pope.
I think sexual thoughts we find acceptable vary as much from person to person. As do the foods we like or avoid. And vary from country to country, century to century, etc. certainly same sex fantasies or other religion or race are far more acceptable now than 100 years ago.
And sex between young teens less acceptable than a millennium ago.
To me the only reasonable point against any sex fantasy is that someone may become obsessed with living it out. If we use the control that they never actually do it? Seems anything goes.

@LustControl yuck. You kinda want to be accepted for your disgusting fantasies yeah?

@SW-User just a discussion.

Sorry I had to add something to think about, not really accepted for the fantasies but accepted as a person first, nobody really knows what’s in someone else’s mind. @SW-User

@Convivial especially if it’s only taboo in some places but not others?

@LustControl what is she what's not taboo changes with both societies and time

@Convivial many things we now consider acceptable were once taboo/illegal like interracial marriage, same sex, anal, oral, premarital, etc. And things once common, incest, 13year olds marrying are now taboo/illegal.

@Rilyn not in size i hope😜

@Rilyn too much lube?

@LustControl Probably.

@bugeye interesting take on the question

@LilithoftheTrees so everything that is currently taboo is “fucked up shit”?

@LustControl I didn’t say that.

@LilithoftheTrees ok I must of misunderstood

@ArishMell if it’s harmless why is it unacceptable?

@LustControl Relatively "harmless" if only a private fantasy no-one else knows is there - and I am not so sure even of that.

It can be very dangerous if the fantasiser loses control of it or starts encouraging it in others of like mind; perhaps through becoming addicted to the nastier stuff on the Internet.

Harmful in reality, and that most certainly is unacceptable.