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You'reabadperson

You'll never amount to anything
You're a failure
You're not doing enough
You don't deserve to relax
You're cruel to those around you
Why aren't you living more?
Why aren't you making more money?
What will the future be like?
You'reabadperson
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marsbar · F
I hope no one has said this to you. And if they did, they’re liars! 💜
caccoon · 36-40
@DeluxedEdition thank you! I try, it just makes me feel guilty for some reason. Or like I can't believe it?

But I think I'm just going through a rough patch 💙
caccoon · 36-40
@marsbar thank you so much!! You're completely right. This is really good advice and I appreciate it. It helps to hear 💙
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
@caccoon look deep and figure out why that makes you feel guilty. Did anyone ever give you the impression that you weren’t worthy or good enough? Perhaps in your childhood

Recognize that someone else’s words do not and will never define who you are. It actually defines who they are. You define who you are by living your best life and getting the most out of your life

Choose happiness and know that you DESERVE every bit of it 🫵 ♥️
OneDayMore · 36-40, M
This is the first post I’ve seen coming on this morning and I’m like… “Yep, this is exactly right”
Zaphod42 · 51-55, M
And that about sums up the vast majority of women previously in my life 😂
caccoon · 36-40
@Zaphod42 I'm sorry to hear that
HellsBelle · F
you saying this to you or someone else? either way. stop.
GBPackersFan · 41-45, M
I am the SW version of Al Bundy
Straylight · 31-35, F
You’re internal monologue better stop saying bad things about my friend. 😤
HikingMan · 51-55, M
I feel violated by your accuracy, because I know that you don't know me....

🤪
SW-User
Nuh. ❤️
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You've already amounted to something awesome ... namely 'you'. And by the sounds of it, you already do too much.
SW-User
From what I see, you are really not a bad person, you keep those kiddos of yours happy, those plants, and your fishes. You need to find a way to keep yourself happy, though, too. I, also, have shit self talk....
caccoon · 36-40
@SW-User I'm sorry to hear that ):

And yeah, I know it's okay and I'm doing fine, logically. But I am getting so tired of this running on loop in my head and the constant guilt for living I feel, because of it
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DDonde · 31-35, M
caccoon · 36-40
@DDonde I'm sorry ):
Bang5luts · M
That was sweet of you to say. That means you really care about me.. other wise you would've never taken the time to let all of that irritate you, write it all down, and stay around to tell me about it..
people (men) say women are complicated 🤔
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I am sorry you have had these things said to you and you say them to yourself. I am trying daily positive affirmations.

I Am Beautiful
I Am A Survivor
I Am Fearless
I Am Enough
I Am Resilient
I Am Unstoppable
I Am Loveable
I Am Worthy
I Am Strong

You are all of these things even if you don’t always see it.
RebelFox · 36-40, F
Sounds like some societal bullshit
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
summersong · F
You know that voice is a fucking liar, right?
caccoon · 36-40
@summersong I do, I think! I just am so sick of feeling guilty all of the time and feeling like there's a hole in my chest because I'll never be enough
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