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Mental Health Is Not About Competition

A lot of people say these days, especially those who are not aware about mental health that we, as teenagers and young adults are just being dramatic whenever we try to express how we feel, and as ond of the people who were born in the 2000's, I will be honest that I am one of those people who are aware of mental health. To be honest, it hurts to be invalidated whenever we talk about our feelings, and adults like parents just say that what we are going through mentally is just in our minds. You know what hurts even more? Some people treat and see mental health as a competition or something that it is not. I don't know who will agree or who will not, but some people will say "During our times, what you're experiencing is nothing compared to what I've experienced" or "I had it worse than you did"

Just a reminder: MENTAL HEALTH IS NOT A COMPETITION, SO STOP TREATING IT AND LOOKING AT IT LIKE IT IS A COMPETITION

Everyone has their own experiences, but if we're going to invalidate those experiences that they had, maybe, it's better that we don't speak at all
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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
It's a real problem but as someone who was struggling in the 90s too, I can say it has improved. There is more understanding now, though I know that isn't saying much.

The best thing we can do for each other is to keep asking questions, keep checking in. Gen x and boomers started the whole "eff your feelings" thing and I have no idea why. But it's toxic.

I believe that, in time, there will be better help and more understanding. We are understanding the human brain more and more, soon things will have to change or everyone is gonna go nuts.
Punxi · F
You’re right...pain isn’t something to rank or compare.

Every generation carries its own weight perhaps, but that doesn’t make anyone else’s lighter or less real. What you feel matters, even if someone else doesn’t understand it.

Real strength isn’t saying “I had it worse”....it’s making space so someone else doesn’t have to hurt alone.
You're absolutely correct.
tenente · 36-40, M
I made my psychiatrist cry 🤔 what do I win?

 
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