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Mental Health Is Not About Competition

A lot of people say these days, especially those who are not aware about mental health that we, as teenagers and young adults are just being dramatic whenever we try to express how we feel, and as ond of the people who were born in the 2000's, I will be honest that I am one of those people who are aware of mental health. To be honest, it hurts to be invalidated whenever we talk about our feelings, and adults like parents just say that what we are going through mentally is just in our minds. You know what hurts even more? Some people treat and see mental health as a competition or something that it is not. I don't know who will agree or who will not, but some people will say "During our times, what you're experiencing is nothing compared to what I've experienced" or "I had it worse than you did"

Just a reminder: MENTAL HEALTH IS NOT A COMPETITION, SO STOP TREATING IT AND LOOKING AT IT LIKE IT IS A COMPETITION

Everyone has their own experiences, but if we're going to invalidate those experiences that they had, maybe, it's better that we don't speak at all
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within · 36-40, M
As a guy who suffers from severe mental health (bipolar disorder II, GAD, paranoia and suicidal thoughts), I've been treated like cr*p and got told to just get over it all my life, even by people like my ex-husband who claimed he loved me.
"I was bullied at school too, but I just got over it" he would say. I've lost the count of the fights that ensued, where I would tell him that each person is different and react to life adversities in a different way.

No, I can't get over it. I wish I could, but I can't.

People think I'm lazy because I wfh, but there's a reason why I work remotely: I have a severe form of social anxiety and I panic whenever I have to see people.

This is the result of parents who emotionally neglected me, a bullying brother, a bullying ex-husband and relentless bullying at school/some previous workplaces.

And today I found out that a former online friend (from another site) killed himself in November 2025 and I felt envy... because I wish I had the courage to do the same.
SandraMercado · 18-21, F
@within I'm sorry about that, and I know that it can be difficult, but don't let others make you feel bad for your situation