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Way too broad to really speak upon. I will express something I saw, my ex's mother was schizophrenic. It took years for her to find help, while her daughter for the longest time had to be her mother's caregiver at the age of 9. When she could no longer, her father stepped in (who was absent, but I do believe cared), took her away from her mother from seeing too late what was going on. She then saw her mother in back alleys, as her mother needed to be away from being seen. It was only when her mother accepted help, they truly had a relationship again. It took treatment in a mental health hospital, then years of medication. Medication she can't stop. Her mother did stop, by accident years ago, found how she was feeling better physically for a short period of time. Then all the troubles she had with her mother years before slowly started to reappear, and was alienating everyone in her life again. She was on a path of homelessness again, and a part my ex saw she needed to see, her mum was clear and clairvoyant, but no longer able to have functioning relationships (again). My ex went to a justice of the peace, as she could not watch her mother undue all of her progress, even though she knew the medication hurt in another way.

Once she had access to seeing what her mother was taking again, she was able to plead with her mother to listen. They had to put her mother on a different medication, as the previous one, once outside her system, could not be given again, but everything I know from that story, they have a much more loving relationship now together that would have been lost.

All that said, though, we do live in a world that prescribes before listening. Don't know why you are asking, and medication may not be the only thing that helps; but don't close down the idea either.
@SW-User I wrote about my struggles on SW, to try to help people try to understand what it’s like.

https://similarworlds.com/thoughts/personal-feelings/4341117-Whats-schizophrenia-and-mental-illness-like-for
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@JustGoneNow Thank you for the share. There are parts I understand well, and I think it's important you wrote how it affects you. Its an umbrella in terms of diagnosis, I don't think two people, unique, will feel the effects the same. I'm not going to divulge much this way, but even with her Mom, you could say became delusional in paranoia, where she saw everyone from Ontario as Romans as trying to attack her. There's also a logical explanation, my ex's father was Italian, she moved to Ontario for him, while he hurt her mother intimately with having an affair with her best friend. Many would have seen her talk of Roman's as illogical and nonsense, but if you follow how she was hurt most intimately, my ex believes was the trigger, you begin to understand how her mind understood and wasn't coping with trauma and loss. It doesn't change how she felt Romans were chasing her to where she had to hide behind street corners to see her daughter, but...

I appreciate what you wrote, and it can certainly offer help for some.
@SW-User I’ve spent enough time with other mentally ill people including other schizophrenics that I know how it manifests is very unique to each individual along with any and all other diagnoses (ie depression, anxiety, BPD, etc.) My goal was of course not to define my disease but to share my own personal experiences with it. I’ve shared a lot over the years but I think it’s important to try to give people an understanding to hopefully reduce the stigma. And not all of it has been bad. Hope is mixed in there too.

https://similarworlds.com/thoughts/personal-feelings/4211240-I-got-convinced-by-a-friend-to-share-a-part-of-my

Matt85 · 36-40, M
They help. I know this cause of the days I ended up in withdawl.
What is there to have an opinion about?
Ontheroad · M
Generally speaking, if the patient finds the right doctor, and that doctor finds the right medications for that patient, they help control the unwanted behaviors caused by that specific mental illness.

There are many ifs, ands, and buts, but generally speaking, they work.
Pretzel · 70-79, M
I need them
My relationship with meditation is complex. I wrote about it in my thread about my schizophrenia. Not taking it is not an option, but I don’t love the side affects and other issues that it causes.

https://similarworlds.com/thoughts/personal-feelings/4341117-Whats-schizophrenia-and-mental-illness-like-for
wackidywack · 26-30
While I personally think they should be last resort treatment, sometimes they're quite necessary especially for conspicuous physiological symptoms
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I think there is still a stigma when it comes to mental health issues and taking medications for them.

If you had high blood pressure, you would take a med for that. If you were Diabetic then you would treat it with medication.

Why wouldn’t you treat a mental health condition with medication if it’s going to improve your life?
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@JustGoneNow I see my Mom struggle too with schizophrenia, borderline personality disorder, CPTSD, early onset dementia and now we are dealing with breast cancer.

I make her medical decisions but I don’t know your struggles with your mental health, I can only imagine because I see what my Mom and Husband deal with. I have struggles with my physical health but it’s not the same.

I wish things could be easier for you though 💜.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@JustGoneNow I am so glad you have her 💖.
@iamonfire696 ty 🦋
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
I was put on something called excitallepram (something like that) once. Hated the stuff. Made me sleep 15 hours a day. I was giggly like an idiot all the time and I couldn't ejaculate. After 3 weeks I had a boner that wouldn't go down!
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
If it works for you then it's a good option. I think my mental illness is intelligence, there's no curing that, just numbing it
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
Some are crap and some are real and helps. Learn which ones and you will improve your life significantly.

 
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