I hear you. You are not alone in this. I'm sorry you're having a hard time—anyone would feel the same. I want you to gently remind yourself today that you would not have broken up, had you not felt it was for the best. It may not seem like it now, but I promise you, it will get better and you will get through this.

You're doing exactly what you need to do right now, and that is honoring your emotions and allowing them to pour out. This is part of the healing process. Sometimes we grieve not because of what we lost, but because of what we thought we had. If the relationship was toxic, then this was necessary. You deserve someone who treats you with love and respect.

Don’t judge yourself right now—just let yourself feel. Tears can bring healing, and it’s okay if you need to cry, even all day sometimes. I’ve been through it too, and I understand how heavy it can feel.

This too shall pass. What feels like an ending can sometimes be Allah's way of making space for a new beginning—something better, healthier, and full of love. As it says in the Qur’an, ‘Indeed, with hardship comes ease.’ You will get through this, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. He is ever near the brokenhearted.

He is with you always, knows every tear, and will carry you through to something better. ♥🫂

Tears may endure for the night, but joy comes in the morning.

The Quiet Strength of Roots

A tree does not grow by what is visible above the ground, but by the strength of the roots below. So too with your soul. Even when life feels slow, or healing seems distant, Allah is deepening your roots through His Word, His love, and His presence. Trust the process. You are being strengthened to stand tall and flourish in ways that cannot yet be seen.