Jayciedubb · 56-60, M
That sucks. Time heals all wounds. But some wounds leave permanent scars. Be patient and be strong and take life one day at a time. The pain will either go away or you'll get used to living with it.
It helps to talk about it. Talking about it takes away its power against you. The more you get used to talking about it, the easier it gets to talk about
When you feel like crying, let it all out. Don't hold back. If you don't want to cry when the feeling comes, force yourself to start laughing. It will be odd at first, but it will start rolling out naturally shortly after you start to force it.
It helps to talk about it. Talking about it takes away its power against you. The more you get used to talking about it, the easier it gets to talk about
When you feel like crying, let it all out. Don't hold back. If you don't want to cry when the feeling comes, force yourself to start laughing. It will be odd at first, but it will start rolling out naturally shortly after you start to force it.
slayqueenvibes · 26-30, F
@Jayciedubb thank you , these days crying had helped me more than forcing a laugh
Jayciedubb · 56-60, M
@slayqueenvibes yea, i understand ..its still a nice trick to know for whenever.. i hope you're feeling a little better today than yesterday
slayqueenvibes · 26-30, F
@Jayciedubb yes feeling better but I still wanna cry I wanna let it all out
LadyGrace · 80-89
I hear you. You are not alone in this. I'm sorry you're having a hard time—anyone would feel the same. I want you to gently remind yourself today that you would not have broken up, had you not felt it was for the best. It may not seem like it now, but I promise you, it will get better and you will get through this.
You're doing exactly what you need to do right now, and that is honoring your emotions and allowing them to pour out. This is part of the healing process. Sometimes we grieve not because of what we lost, but because of what we thought we had. If the relationship was toxic, then this was necessary. You deserve someone who treats you with love and respect.
Don’t judge yourself right now—just let yourself feel. Tears can bring healing, and it’s okay if you need to cry, even all day sometimes. I’ve been through it too, and I understand how heavy it can feel.
This too shall pass. What feels like an ending can sometimes be Allah's way of making space for a new beginning—something better, healthier, and full of love. As it says in the Qur’an, ‘Indeed, with hardship comes ease.’ You will get through this, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. He is ever near the brokenhearted.
He is with you always, knows every tear, and will carry you through to something better. ♥🫂
Tears may endure for the night, but joy comes in the morning.
The Quiet Strength of Roots
A tree does not grow by what is visible above the ground, but by the strength of the roots below. So too with your soul. Even when life feels slow, or healing seems distant, Allah is deepening your roots through His Word, His love, and His presence. Trust the process. You are being strengthened to stand tall and flourish in ways that cannot yet be seen.
You're doing exactly what you need to do right now, and that is honoring your emotions and allowing them to pour out. This is part of the healing process. Sometimes we grieve not because of what we lost, but because of what we thought we had. If the relationship was toxic, then this was necessary. You deserve someone who treats you with love and respect.
Don’t judge yourself right now—just let yourself feel. Tears can bring healing, and it’s okay if you need to cry, even all day sometimes. I’ve been through it too, and I understand how heavy it can feel.
This too shall pass. What feels like an ending can sometimes be Allah's way of making space for a new beginning—something better, healthier, and full of love. As it says in the Qur’an, ‘Indeed, with hardship comes ease.’ You will get through this, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. He is ever near the brokenhearted.
He is with you always, knows every tear, and will carry you through to something better. ♥🫂
Tears may endure for the night, but joy comes in the morning.
The Quiet Strength of Roots
A tree does not grow by what is visible above the ground, but by the strength of the roots below. So too with your soul. Even when life feels slow, or healing seems distant, Allah is deepening your roots through His Word, His love, and His presence. Trust the process. You are being strengthened to stand tall and flourish in ways that cannot yet be seen.
slayqueenvibes · 26-30, F
@LadyGrace Thank you 🥺 this is really hard for me , I don't think I will ever love someone like this , the only thing that is holding me is Allah and his words , I forgave them for the freedom of my soul, I don't know what future holds for me I feel so alone but again words like Allah is there wherever you are but atlast I am human ,I am weak, I get overwhelmed by my feelings.
LadyGrace · 80-89
@slayqueenvibes oh sweetheart I hear you. No wonder you feel the way you do. It was a great loss for you. I'm so sorry. But I want to gently encourage you and tell you that I was in your place one time and in fact I grieved a whole year and 2 months and then when I prayed, my prayers were heard and I was delivered from the grief, just as you will begin to heal in time. This season for you will pass even though it doesn't feel like it now. And then after I went through that, I look back and I thought what in the world did I see in this jerk? How disrespectful he was and that's why I put my foot down and left him. No one deserves that kind of disrespect. We are not born to be people Pleasers or doormats.
Of course you are only human and weak and overwhelmed, but this too shall pass. And it may not seem like it now sweetheart, but this is actually a good sign that your body is trying to get all the hurt out, so it can heal. This is only a temporary time for you and like me, you will come out the other side... just don't rush yourself and don't push yourself. Let it come naturally. For now, know that you are loved by all and I will be praying for you as well but please know that you really will come out the other side and have a new beginning. And you will love again as well. There's still someone out there for you and he's looking for you as much as you are looking for him and in time in the right time, you will find each other so please do not lose hope. Don't try to stuff those feelings in. Cry as often as you need to because tears are healing and they will help you heal. At the same time, try to do one good thing for yourself each day even if it's very small and do this each day and this will help you feel more confident as well. We really would not be doing ourselves a favor if we allow toxic people to stay in our lives, right? You were smart enough to know that and that's why you had to get out. No guilt, no shame about it. You were taking good care of yourself which is what we are meant to do. You were smart enough to think this isn't working for me, it's hurting me, so I must get out and that was the wisest thing you did for yourself and that was very loving towards yourself. I commend you for that cuz most women would stay in the toxic or abusive situation, but you didn't. That's something to actually celebrate, your freedom from a toxic relationship that would end up in the end, making you physically ill. You deserve much better and you shall have much better and that's why this had to end. I'm real proud of you for stepping away. Those type relationships never work. Especially if you go back. I hope you feel better soon. Much love
Of course you are only human and weak and overwhelmed, but this too shall pass. And it may not seem like it now sweetheart, but this is actually a good sign that your body is trying to get all the hurt out, so it can heal. This is only a temporary time for you and like me, you will come out the other side... just don't rush yourself and don't push yourself. Let it come naturally. For now, know that you are loved by all and I will be praying for you as well but please know that you really will come out the other side and have a new beginning. And you will love again as well. There's still someone out there for you and he's looking for you as much as you are looking for him and in time in the right time, you will find each other so please do not lose hope. Don't try to stuff those feelings in. Cry as often as you need to because tears are healing and they will help you heal. At the same time, try to do one good thing for yourself each day even if it's very small and do this each day and this will help you feel more confident as well. We really would not be doing ourselves a favor if we allow toxic people to stay in our lives, right? You were smart enough to know that and that's why you had to get out. No guilt, no shame about it. You were taking good care of yourself which is what we are meant to do. You were smart enough to think this isn't working for me, it's hurting me, so I must get out and that was the wisest thing you did for yourself and that was very loving towards yourself. I commend you for that cuz most women would stay in the toxic or abusive situation, but you didn't. That's something to actually celebrate, your freedom from a toxic relationship that would end up in the end, making you physically ill. You deserve much better and you shall have much better and that's why this had to end. I'm real proud of you for stepping away. Those type relationships never work. Especially if you go back. I hope you feel better soon. Much love
slayqueenvibes · 26-30, F
@JackJames family issue
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slayqueenvibes · 26-30, F
@Greyjedi I hope for the good in future
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Ramrod · 46-50, M
Facing hard time,like prison time ???
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