Ever betrayed someones trust ?

@awildsheepschase please read my 1st post to get my story... if you can please come back here and give me advice if you have any. Thank you

@awildsheepschase im glad you've healed. The person i betrayed has days when shes just hurtful in words. I just always wonder how long it will last , how much can i really take. I never intended to hurt i , i know its hard for her to believe this given her hurt. But i hope she one day knows how much i love her and regret the lies

@awildsheepschase https://similarworlds.com/love/broken-heart/5318775-I-broke-the-person-i-love-and-wanted-a-life-with

@exexec thats lovely. The fact that the betrayal didnt ruin your relationship and shes now your wife is beautiful. How did you feel though? Did it hurt and why was ut so easy to forgive her even before she confessed ?

@Lee2025 It's a complicated story, but the bottom line is that I knew she loved me and only me. She made that clear to the men she cheated with. She was free to date, but not to have sex. The sex started when they discovered that two strong rum and Cokes made her clothes fall off and her legs spread. When I finally asked her to stop dating others, she stopped cold turkey. Never dated again.

@LadyBronte im sorry you webt through that. I cant imagine the hurt that comes with been betrayed by someone you freely gave trust.

How would have liked them to recify the situation ?
What was their reaction and approach when you caught on their lies?

@nevergiveup thats the thing , i dont think theres ever fully healing, triggers can set off whenever. I just hope you try practice kindness towards your current wife and shes not paying for someones else ill treatment towards you.

Im happy for you moving on and finding love again. Im sure it wasnt easy

I just hope i can salvage my relationship and rebuild the trust , im committed to making it whenever shes ready.

@Lee2025 If you want to talk just PM me

@nevergiveup thank you , will most definitely slide in lol. Take care

@BiasForAction im hopeful that at some point we will reconcile. For now i wabt to prioritize my healing and i hope she heals too from the pain my lies inflicted. Shes an amazing person , she didnt deserve the lies (not that anyone does)


A few pointers on how you navigates the situation... please

@Lee2025 apologize, commit to actions that will restore trust or eliminate her doubts, and follow through every day

@BiasForAction thank you. She asked for time which was rather confusing , i didnt know if this also meant no contact.

She called a few minutes ago , i asked her to clarify what time is for her , does it mean she would prefer me not to contact her. She said it simply means i shouldnt rush her to be okay or push for reconciliation.


Please read my 1st post to ger the back story... im willing to do anything to regain her trust , lying wasnt worth it and i just pray i handle situations differently. Im doing the work, introspected and even seeked professional help. Hurting someone you love recks you , well thats if you truly did love them.

@BLP11520 why are you still with her ? Sorry you feel that way

@masterofyou oh my , im so sorry 😢😢Have you healed from the betrayal ? And how is your relationship now with the person that beyrayed you ?

@SmileOnYourBrother thats weird 😳 sorry about that.
Id be so confused knowing i did nothing

@Lee2025 And yes, I listened. But the reasoning had nothing to do with trust or betrayal. It had to do with words and 'feelings', both which can be easily misinterpreted.

@Lee2025 I wouldn't say I did nothing 😔, but it takes TWO to enhance or destroy a relationship.