Ever betrayed someones trust ?

Have you ever broke someones trust , someone who loves you deeply , was transparent and honest about everything and you just lied ?

What did it take to rebuild that trust?
How did you navigate the whole situation?

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BiasForAction · M

One day at a time and over a long period of time — it’s so difficult

Lee2025 · 31-35, FNew

@BiasForAction so trust can be rebuilt ? What does it take for it to be rebuilt ?

Thank you for responding

BiasForAction · M

@Lee2025 in my case it has and in others I have seen it too. But most of the time it seems insurmountable and couples part

Lee2025 · 31-35, FNew

@BiasForAction im hopeful that at some point we will reconcile. For now i wabt to prioritize my healing and i hope she heals too from the pain my lies inflicted. Shes an amazing person , she didnt deserve the lies (not that anyone does)

A few pointers on how you navigates the situation... please

BiasForAction · M

@Lee2025 apologize, commit to actions that will restore trust or eliminate her doubts, and follow through every day

Lee2025 · 31-35, FNew

@BiasForAction thank you. She asked for time which was rather confusing , i didnt know if this also meant no contact.

She called a few minutes ago , i asked her to clarify what time is for her , does it mean she would prefer me not to contact her. She said it simply means i shouldnt rush her to be okay or push for reconciliation.

Please read my 1st post to ger the back story... im willing to do anything to regain her trust , lying wasnt worth it and i just pray i handle situations differently. Im doing the work, introspected and even seeked professional help. Hurting someone you love recks you , well thats if you truly did love them.