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It's tough accepting my dad passed

It happened so quick. To be diagnosed with such an aggressive cancer in early January, be offered no treatment, and pass on Valentine's Day... Just something you'd never dream would happen. I felt so utterly mad, sad and helpless. And I know the physical anguish he went through, developed pneumonia too.
My dad was in my first dream since passing last night. It felt like real life. Maybe the old saying, Life is but a dream, is true after all.
Miss you dad🌹
Baybreeze
41-45, F
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VersesAndBruises · 100+, F
I’m so sorry. That kind of loss, especially so sudden and painful, is just unbearable. Your feelings make so much sense — mad, sad, helpless… all of it. I hope that dream brought even a tiny bit of comfort. Please know you’re surrounded by love, and I’m holding you in my heart. If you ever need to talk, I’m here.
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Baybreeze · 41-45, F
@VersesAndBruises Thank you so much 🌸
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OverTheHill · 61-69, M
I'm sorry for your loss. I understand. My parents took a sudden turn for the worse and died within a week of each other. I grieved over their deaths for a long time. I still miss them. I pray for God to bring you comfort.
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Baybreeze · 41-45, F
@OverTheHill I'm sorry to hear. It really is a hard thing to wrap your head around..😟 But I believe our spirit does endure on. Thank you 🌼
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Sazzio · 36-40, M
Sorry to hear that.

I see yer from USA? U must now be questioning the Health services and earlier intervention. Same here in UK (despite the free health services). Due to waiting lists you'd have to be lucky to get into treatment before it gets bad or worse.
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Cigarguy · 41-45, M
Just remember you were there for him when you needed him and that is what matters. Allow yourself to feel what you need right now, no feeling is wrong. Your grief is your own. Remember him your way. I'm so sorry for your loss 😔
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Baybreeze · 41-45, F
@Cigarguy Thank you truly 🌼
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AstroZombie · 36-40, M
Take the time you need to grieve. Surround yourself with friends and loved ones who can provide support and comfort. You're gonna be fine, but it WILL take time. We're all here for you!
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Baybreeze · 41-45, F
@AstroZombie Thanks Astro🌻
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AstroZombie · 36-40, M
@Baybreeze You're welcome. :)
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PhoenixPhail · M
Life IS but a dream. Seeing in your dreams those who have transitioned, is one way they communicate with you, especially when the dream is so vivid.

Consciousness survives physical death. These bodies of ours are just containers. And, once out of its container, the expansion of consciousness is enormous.

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Baybreeze · 41-45, F
@PhoenixPhail I do wonder if it was my subconscious dreaming of him. Not necessarily his spirit visiting... But I told him before he passed, he'd always be with me, I do believe that.
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PhoenixPhail · M
@Baybreeze Yes, he WILL always be with you. Life is eternal. This is something pragmatic and has nothing to do with religion. The body knows how to be born and how to die. And, it's ONLY the body that dies, not your consciousness OR your identity. You're still YOU. And in so much more an inclusive way, it's ineffable. In every near-death experience I've listened to, this is what's reported. The experience can't be described in human terms.

This, and so many commonalities of being on "the other side," are consistent in tens of millions of reported near-death experiences. They are not dreams or hallucinations. It's the experience of waking up from this dream (or nightmare) of physical reality into your TRUE reality, which is nothing but blissful, unconditional love.

Let me know if you'd like to know more, or would like some video examples.
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Baybreeze · 41-45, F
@PhoenixPhail It's a very interesting subject. And video too. Thank you.
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Strongtea · 22-25, M
I’m so sorry, I feel so bad for you. It’s such a hard, horrid situation. Hugs.
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samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
My condolences.
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Prince0217 · M
I can understand may be to some extent.
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uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Take your time and let your grief process play out at its own pace.
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